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I need some holiday gift ideas (that I will probably gift to myself as well)!

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[–] Hope 116 points 1 year ago (9 children)
  • A bidet attachment.
  • For me, an under-the-sink trash can that hands on the cabinet door has been a huge QoL improvement.
  • A back scratcher.
  • Much more situational, but our back gate has a padlock that was originally different from our house keys. Kwikset actually sells "programmable" padlocks so now it is the same key as our front door, which makes life a tad easier.
  • A computer mouse that fits my hands.
  • Enough phone and laptop chargers to not have to constantly go to another room to grab one.
[–] EfreetSK 47 points 1 year ago (7 children)

Enough phone and laptop chargers to not have to constantly go to another room to grab one.

Yes! I had enough of this so I bought like 6 USB-C cables at once, best buy ever

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (6 children)

What's the current recommendation for those? Is it still Anker?

Also be sure to get a medium length one. It's so much nicer having a 6' cable, or 10' if you want to get crazy with it. It makes traveling and transit much nicer (ex. University students working on campus), and it might be nice for home so you can roll all over your bed while on your phone

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[–] [email protected] 91 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Rechargeable batteries. They have paid for themselves many times over by now. Less guilt about throwing away dead ones, too.

[–] Contramuffin 33 points 1 year ago (2 children)

This, entirely. I remember back 10, 15 years ago, rechargeable batteries were trash. Gave them a second shot recently, and I'm genuinely surprised. They're as good, possibly even better than, non-rechargeables

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 year ago (1 children)

One thing to note is that many of the cheaper rechargeables do not work very well with older electronics.

This is because the nominal voltage on alkalines tend to hover around 1.6 volts when they're fully charged whereas on rechargeables they tend to hover closer to 1.4, and that may not seem like a lot but when you've got something that uses six AA's and you short it out the equivalent of nearly one full battery then things are bound to get a little wonky.

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[–] kilcal 69 points 1 year ago (14 children)
[–] [email protected] 94 points 1 year ago (1 children)

OMFG, my fucking nose is gone!

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[–] [email protected] 90 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Fantastic work. Just excellent.

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[–] shish_mish 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Where can I get Nose cancelling headphones? I could do with some dog is old, and his farts are a biological weapon.

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[–] Contramuffin 65 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Here's an unusual one - an M.2 SSD to USB adapter.

Most, if not all, laptops come with SSD's nowadays, and they're usually pretty easy to take out from a laptop. Gather some old, broken laptops, and take out their SSD's. They're so much faster than USB flash drives, I prefer to use SSD's where possible. Plus, it helps with e-waste

[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

I wish I had the money to upgrade my laptops often enough that even my previous one had an m.2 ssd

[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 year ago (1 children)

"neat ideas for $50?"

  • first, throw away a $1,000 laptop
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[–] [email protected] 48 points 1 year ago (1 children)

This is stupid. But socks and underwear. All new socks and underwear.

I love throwing out all my old ragged socks and having a bunch of brand new pairs in the drawer.

[–] Drewlb 16 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Key to this is identical ducts socks. No more sorting

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[–] PunnyName 48 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)
  • Aeropress for the coffee people who want something easy to store and clean.

  • Portable Bluetooth speaker. I have the Anker Soundcore 2, and use it all the time in my studio apartment.

  • Deli containers for food storage.

  • Electric mixer. It will save you a lot of strain if you often mix by hand.

  • Water filtration system of your choice. I use ZeroWater.

  • Humidifier for those dry months.

  • PC gamer? Use emulators for older console games? Get an Xbox controller for those non mouse and keyboard games (Journey et. al were on sale recently).

  • Canister vacuum cleaner. I use Bissell Zing (about $75), but they're better than bagless vacuums.

  • Plants for literal quality of life. https://www.thespruce.com/easy-houseplants-hard-to-kill-4141665

[–] justhach 20 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I cannot recommend the Aeropress enough. It makes such great coffee at its price point. Its quicker and less wasteful than a lot of other popular single cup options coughKeurigcough

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[–] [email protected] 45 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Electric teakettle if you use an older style stovetop one. The lowest end ones I've seen are only like $15, and work pretty much as well as some nicer ones, just don't look as pretty, but they'll boil water faster than the stove will. Even if you don't make tea or similar, if you ever eat things like pasta that are cooked in boiling water, you can heat the water in the kettle first and then transfer to the pot to make things slightly faster, and use less gas if you happen to have a gas stove.

[–] PunnyName 23 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

Not only are they useful for their typical purpose, but they boil water faster in pretty much any boil water use case. Use the water for your pasta, hard boiled eggs, etc.!

Relevant Technology Connections: https://youtu.be/_yMMTVVJI4c

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[–] chronicledmonocle 44 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (23 children)

Instant Pot (on sale): There is legitimately so many things you can make in these. Many of them do sous vide too, which is one of the best ways to cook meat.

Powered ratchet: For anyone who works on their own vehicles, a cheap powered ratchet is a godsend. I bought one for oil changes and car repairs and it's my most used tool in my bag. I'm mad I spent so much time without one. Walmart's Hyper Tough brand powered ratchet is $40 and holds up very well. Extended reach one is often on sale for $50-55.

E-Ink reader: Another often on sale item. If you have someone who loves books, having an entire library in your pocket with a built-in backlight for night reading that's also easy on the eyes is a great thing. Coupled with Calibre and some....sourced epub files.....and you can read a lot for free.

Vacuum sealer: Never have freezer burned stuff again. And keeps things fresh in the fridge longer. Also works great for sous vide for the above-mentioned Instant Pot.

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[–] [email protected] 37 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

Adding mine:

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[–] ladicius 35 points 1 year ago (13 children)
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[–] [email protected] 28 points 1 year ago (1 children)

A red nightlight or two somewhere between your bed and the bathroom. Red doesn’t wake you up as much or destroy your night vision. Ideal for trips to the bathroom in the middle of the night.

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[–] [email protected] 28 points 1 year ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 26 points 1 year ago (11 children)

So many things in your house that are probably pissing you off:

  • it's very easy to replace an outlet that doesn't hold a plug or is a little off for whatever reason.
  • ditto light switches
  • door handles and shit. We hated the jank handle on our patio door that barely worked and required specialized training to get to lock. $12 for a new one, that was much more aesthetically from this decade. (that said, some lock lube, which is a thing, goes a long way)
  • ditto for the various shitty faucets in this house (or any slightly older house.) You can get a ton of bathroom fixtures for under $30.
  • hinges. Unless you're trying to re-hang a safe door, you're going to be under $20.
  • faucet diffuser. They just screw on. Have you lived in your place for more than a few years and haven't replace them? Just do it, it's like $4 a faucet.
  • doorbell. Smart doorbells can easily be had for under $50. A little easier often than replacing the traditional bell because you usually have a plug in chime rather than something wired.
  • a can of sprayfoam. Seal that area that is letting in air. Trim it with a box knife, chances are you won't know the hack exists.
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[–] hamsammy 25 points 1 year ago

I haven't read all of the comments on here, but here are mine that are more beauty related that improve my quality of life:

  • a bottle of oil makeup remover and face cleanser, specifically the DHC Cleansing Oil that you put on your dry face, rub lightly all over and then rinse off. Gone are the days of drying out your face and creating more waste with makeup remover wipes.

  • if you prefer just water and no oil, a simple soft makeup remover towel is a dream, removes makeup with just getting the cloth wet and then gently rubbing on your face and eyes. Buy a pack of like 12 or something as you shouldn't use the same towel more than once to clean your face - the bacteria it gets on there can actually make your skin worse if you use it multiple times before washing.

  • sunscreen! Omg if you don't moisturize or use sunscreen you're doing yourself a disservice. Do yourself a favor and make it easier by gettinga 2-in-1 moisturizer+SPF. Good brands being dermatologist recommended CeraVe or flight attendant/aesthetician recommended Kiehls. Honestly, throw in some lip balm from them too or their overnight lip mask where you put it on before bed and wake up with super soft and non-chapped lips - a lifesaver especially when you're sick and end up mouth breathing all night.

  • a microfiber dedicated hair towel - immediately after your shower wrap up your hair in this for like 5-10 min and then your hair won't be sopping wet and will be less frizzy from the lack of scratchy towel drying. Bonus, you get to look cool in a hair wrap.

  • an eyelash growth serum, my favorite is Babelash. Gone are the days of falsies or weak thin lashes that don't keep debris out your eyes. Put this on your lid lash line religiously every night for a week then alter every other day and then after about 3 weeks you should see results and then use as-needed. Stuff is amazing and you can get a two-pack at Costco even - just don't buy the ones off Amazon as it's a knock off formula and you're putting stuff near your eyes so be mindful about that.

  • nail cuticle oil, my fingertips get dry and I end up picking them. Not to mention how much healthier your nailbeds will be when you start using this. Put some on your cuticles and then rub it in - I do it mindlessly while I'm watching TV or something. Helped me get my nails back after biting them for decades.

  • a cozy pair of soleless slippers, I prefer the brand "snoozies!" I wear those all the time I'm in the house and love that I can even put them on the couch or wherever as I don't go outside with them. Alternatively, a good pair of slippers with a sole you wear to get the mail with if you are in chill mode and don't wanna put on actual shoes for small outdoor tasks.

That's all I can think of right now, but those are some of my favorites for smaller daily life improvements.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 year ago (1 children)
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[–] Clepsydrae 22 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Ryobi Desktop Vacuum. I do a lot of small-scale craft stuff and absolutely love this thing. Good for cleaning up odd crumbs and whatnot, too. It's surprisingly powerful and fairly quiet (a LOT quieter than a standard handheld vacuum).

https://www.ryobitools.com/products/details/33287217182

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Electric blanket.

I feel like a grandparent on the couch but fuck it's nice and cozy when I haven't turned the heat on and I'm watching tv.

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Darn Tough brand. Expensive but worth it.

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 year ago (8 children)

Knife sharpener.

Your knives aren't bad, they're dull. A knife sharpener will make every knife you own good as new (and it's cheaper than any single knife as well)

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[–] jonkenator 18 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Two items I don't see in anyone other people's replies:

  • A dual-wall stainless water bottle like a Hydroflask. It'll keep water ice cold all day.

  • Pop Socket, never drop your phone again.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Pop Socket, never drop your phone again.

Also never fit in your pockets again

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Great topic idea! Here are some of mine, I'll add links later:

  • Heat resistant cooking gloves. These are basically oven mitts, but because they're gloves, you can keep them on while cooking. I've gifted a few pairs of these and everyone loves them!
  • A percussion massager is great for getting out muscle knots. Foam rollers too.
  • Collapsible creates for the car and around the house - mine are made by InstaCrate
  • A refillable oil sprayer so that you can buy any oil you want and evenly coat a pan. Great for searing and air frying
  • Stainless steel pots are amazing. IKEA sells a set that's around $50. Totally dishwasher safe, heat tolerant, just all around easy peasy
  • Costco membership
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[–] VoldemortsHorcrux 17 points 1 year ago (7 children)

I made soup containers for my family last Christmas, went down really well! Got glass containers from IKEA, layered lentils, beans/herbs/pasta/seasonings in a decorative way. Looks pretty, throw in a pot when lazy!

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[–] rtxn 17 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Situational, but mine was 50m of CAT5e cable, a bag of plugs, and a crimping tool. I finally eliminated the "but what if we move the router" spool of excess cables behind the furniture.

In a similar fashion, several 3m USB-C cables.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I’m gonna sound like a shill, but fuck it. This is genuinely good and I don’t mind.

My DTTO case. They make great cases for iPads and Samsung tablets (I haven’t tried their iPhone ones). Yeah, every asshole makes iPad cases, but these are high quality while still being around $20. Unlike a lot of cases, they feel like they were actually designed for practical real-world use. For something this simple, details matter, and they got it right.

I used to get a random new case every year, but after finding these people by sheer luck, I won’t buy any other brand.

Ad over.

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[–] GraniteM 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Rubber hot water bottle. It is so nice to have when you're sick or achy.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago

Additionally those Rubber Ice Bags from the 50s. They perform so much better than any new fancy heating/cooling pad - with wires everywhere, the battery is always dying, and just frustration at a time you don't need it.

Just pour boiling water and you're set for 4 hours.

Alternatively drop a cup full of ice, and it'll keep cold until you can't feel the injury anymore.

[–] Zak 14 points 1 year ago (4 children)

A pocketable flashlight. I have recommendations over at [email protected]

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[–] Smokeydope 14 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I recently got a double puffy blanket in my endevors to stsy warm while living offgrid. Its one of ny favorite posessions now I use a lot. Feels great, Keeps you very warm when cold, and can be buttoned up as a cloak/poncho. This Halloween I drunkenly wandered around town in near freezing weather with it in and was comfy as hell. Protected me from wind and fufilled my secret dream of wearing a batman cloak.

I am the night, bitch! snuggles up into blanket cloak

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago

Oh hey, I just got a $50 Amazon gift card! I'll read some suggestions in here…

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago (17 children)

a few random things:

  • $5.99 magnetic measuring spoons. They stick together and nest.
  • $18.99 MagSafe phone car mount. I use iPhone and my car supports Android Auto/Carplay, but there isn't really a good place to stick your phone. This thing is basically a big magnet, I plug my phone in, throw it on this thing, and we good. Worth noting, even if you have CarPlay (guessing Android Auto as well) even though you don't need to use your phone, some apps have some functions when you're using them in this manner. EG: maps displays the next few turn by turn directions on the phone screen, and the overview of the map on the carplay screen.
  • decent/good chef's knife. I think the one I'm using now is about $30, but you can get the ol' reliable Victorinox for around that price or a little cheaper.
  • cabinet lighting pucks. I think Walmart has them for like $12 for two, but they are basically stick somewhere, motion activated lights that are battery powered. Paired with rechargeable batteries, I can now see the food that we push to the back of the cabinet to die.
  • new streaming stick thingy. Though I greatly prefer Apple TV, it's hard to justify the price of those compared to Roku/Fire TV. That said, if you're hanging on to an older version of the Fire TV/Roku, upgrading helps the annoyance factor because it's just far less slow. We just added a $24.99 4k Fire TV stick, much nicer.
  • Wireless chargers for phones. You can get them for like under $10. Buy 5, put them where you generally set your phone down. Or more simply, right next to the bedside. I generally only charge at night, so much nicer to be able to just drop it on a pad/magnet, etc.
  • $9 dimmer switch. Our master bath is weird. The toilet/shower area has a door. The sink area connects directly to the bedroom with no door. The sink area has large mirrors and massive amounts of lighting. Fucking sucks if you're just getting up to pee and you now have the light of the sun on you and your partner at 3am.

more niche, bunch of smart home shit:

  • just think about how $10-$20 and a little bit of thought can improve your life. I have a switch connected to my espresso maker, now I can yell in the shower to turn it on to pre-heat. If I had a regular schedule, I could automate this further just on time. I have it set so that once I tell it to turn on, it turns off after 20 minutes.
  • motion sensor lights. though technically you don't need a smart home for this, there are some lights in my house that I only want to turn on when someone is there. I have a hallway, for example, that is more or less a cave tunnel. Any time I'm in that hallway (or anyone else) I want to have some light. So I have a motion sensor that turns the light on, and based on the status of the sun, it dims accordingly. When I walk into my garage, there are a few lights that turn on in sequence and it feels like you're walking into the bat cave.
  • buttons! You can buy many different remotes for < $20. Pretty much anything you automate via voice you also need a button for. Pro-tip, use in-wall switches where you can, but in my case I didn't have a neutral wire because it's an older house, and my options were pretty limited/expensive.
  • last example: my entryway lights. I have a door sensor ($10-15) so if I open it I can perform an action. My entry light has a smart bulb ($9.) I also have a floor standing lamp adjacent to this that has a smart bulb. What this allows me to do is check when I've recently arrived, and if it's after sunset and the bigger light isn't already on, turn on this entry light. If my TV is playing a movie, the light goes on in the dimmest setting so arriving people don't disturb.
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[–] halloween_spookster 12 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Probably a bit out of the $50 budget: a massage.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Tongue scraper. Get a small metal one, will completely remove bad breath and stuff like garlic breath. It also removes cakes of plaque on your tongue sometimes. I've always brushed my teeth, but holy cow the tongue scraper helps. Better than mouthwash.

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