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[–] FireTower 66 points 1 year ago (6 children)

I just checked and those rules are wild.

Posting a picture of a slice of cheese without a NSFW tag and a content warning is bannable but calling violence against large groups of people isn't.

[–] CluckN 54 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Holy hell that sounds like a parody community made by 4chan.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yep and like 4chan It’s full of Russian propaganda. Just look at how many of their posts reference Ukrainian Nazis.

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 29 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

It appears to be a rule against posting food made from animal products. As someone who doesn't eat animal products myself, I don't particularly enjoy scrolling Reddit or Lemmy and seeing a picture of a meat dish, but it doesn't ruin my day I would never dream of demanding a content warning for it.

To my knowledge CWs are geared towards content that has the potential to trigger past trauma, and I can't understand how a food category could be so broadly traumatic to someone (outside of EDs I guess, which is obviously not the focus of this rule).

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I suspect it's less of a trigger warning, and more of a means to reframe perceptions of food.

Like, if TV commercials just started putting little "viewers may find the following depictions of dead animals disturbing" stingers before a commercial of a family eating steaks, it might change perceptions over time.

[–] HardlightCereal 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yeah, that's exactly what it is.

Homelander drinking a consenting woman's breast milk is disturbing and helps convince viewers he's a creep. Yet if he were to enjoy a nice glass of refreshing cow breast milk, that would be completely normal. Why? Because our society has made a very deliberate choice not to consider there being anything wrong with milking a cow.

Hexbear simply does not participate in that choice. On Hexbear, there is something disturbing about milking a cow, and that's because the admins want you to be disturbed by it. That has always been the default state of things.

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[–] SgtAStrawberry 7 points 1 year ago

Unfortunately trigger warnings got watered down very quickly, to now also being used as an "anything someone might find the slightest discomfort in"

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I just don't understand them. The users I mean.

[–] FireTower 23 points 1 year ago (1 children)

We are a platform that welcomes anyone who wants to be here in good faith. With that said, we are also an intentionally leftist platform; conservative and reactionary ideologies will not be tolerated here.

They live in an idolgical bubble where contrary opinions are not tolerated, and dissent is shunned. The only voices they hear are leftist and extreme leftist voices shifting the Overton window of politics in their minds leading to radical beliefs.

It's important to have your beliefs challenged at times, they lack that. If you can try and listen to voices from opposing view points, maybe even share your own in a respectful manner.

(This isn't an issue particular to any side of politics, it also occurs in more right wing groups)

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I guess I've been really surprised at their support for Palestine.

I thought that the left would be less supportive of the more conservative religion

[–] FireTower 16 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I don't think they support Palestine as much as they oppose colonialism.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

They're trolls. Is most of the world supporting XYZ? We are suddenly against XYZ for reasons! Is someone giving actual real life reasons to support XYZ? We have to reply with emojis!

They're very gang oriented. Once one of them declares an opinion the rest of them must follow it and defend it no matter what.

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[–] [email protected] 40 points 1 year ago (10 children)

I believe they do, yes. It's done to out anti-trans people, making them easy to spot as they complain loudly about being forced to.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] Duamerthrax 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I mean, it's unverifiable and unenforceable. Personally, I wouldn't sign up for anything that requires identifying myself like that. I can just look at someone's comment history to see if they're strongly pro or anti tolerance. As it stands, this has as much value as as North Korea calling themselves democratic.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (6 children)

Unverifiable maybe, unenforceable, no. They simply ban anyone who refuses.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (4 children)

what if I honestly dgaf and prefer that people call me whatever they want?

[–] [email protected] 37 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

"Any" is probably fine. It tends to be my choice. That said, you're better off just not using Hexbear. Ya know, unless you're chill with things like genocide.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 year ago

It's pretty common for hb users to have "any/all" or "none/username". It's not a hindrance.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

Then you put that I guess.

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[–] [email protected] 39 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (18 children)

In their general rules:

Any pictures of food containing animal products, including but not limited to meat, cheese, or egg, must be tagged nsfw along with food discussion content warnings (CW: Food).

Animal Liberation is essential to any leftist movement, including platforms like Hexbear. Volunteers, comments, and posts, should not be anti-vegan, although users and volunteers are not required to be vegan.

Wow. Just wow. That is so far beyond leftist.

[–] [email protected] 30 points 1 year ago (2 children)

It's like if Fox News was to create a leftist website. It smells so fake.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I don't know, you see a cow being shot and cut up, it's NSFW. You put some parsley on it, it's now food.

[–] Huxleywaswrite 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yeah. That's how that works

[–] angrystego 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

That's generally how human brains work. We're capable of switching empathy on and off, allowing us to both hunt and love animals, protect our group and fight the others, be careful not to hurt others and perform surgery... People are paradoxical creatures.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

That's so far left, it's behind

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago (35 children)

It's part of the signing up process. I've seen people without them, but it's very rare. There's probably a grace period.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (3 children)

What if my preferred pronouns are to not have any?

[–] [email protected] 31 points 1 year ago

None/use name seems to be an option aswell

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

Shadow the Hedgehog.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

How should people refer to you in the third person? It's okay to use one's name as the preferred pronoun.

[–] BloodSlut 33 points 1 year ago

please do not refer to me

[–] BreadstickNinja 10 points 1 year ago (2 children)

A name is a noun, not a pronoun, but the site seems to allow "none/use name" as an option.

[–] foggy 5 points 1 year ago

Foggy is confused 🤔

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago
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