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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Vinyl (for music, not floors).

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

CRT screens and incandescent lamp.

[–] LaLuzDelSol 3 points 1 day ago

Yeah those things would get HOT. like, hot enough to melt plastic. And they were really wasteful.

[–] sleepmode 14 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Pagers. Having to find a pay phone. Looking through newspapers for jobs. Absolutely gutless emissions- strangled malaise era cars with horrible brakes and numb steering.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Looking through the paper for a job was in some ways better. Now it's so hard to even get past the initial filters to an actual human because job postings get spammed with hundreds of applications, many from people who are underqualified and/or straight up lying on their resume. For remote jobs, you're competing against the whole country whereas with jobs in the paper you were mostly competing against those in your local area.

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[–] [email protected] 54 points 2 days ago (3 children)

At the risk of becoming too anti-casual, anti-gay slurs were so common in the US up until the mid/late 90s, if you weren't there for it you just have no idea. One of the Bill and Ted movies (I think the first one?) just randomly dropping it in there as a joke, where the slur is the joke, is a good example of just how it was then. There's still bigotry but it's not as casual and pervasive.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Eminem has a song where he casually drops an F bomb.

[–] thrawn 21 points 1 day ago

He dropped like a thousand of them. He was using it regularly until sometime in the 2010s.

Eminem is weird cause he leans left but will use any word— save for n word and now f— as long as it rhymes or fits the scheme, then does nearly nothing else offensive. It’s like words are exempt from his morality.

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[–] [email protected] 35 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Dial-up internet. I would open a website and go do something else for a minute until it loads, then fight with my parents when they pick up the phone when I've been downloading something for 3 hours.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 days ago (1 children)

We had very late internet infrastructure upgrade, so at the end we had a bluetooth dial-up internet router in the early 2010s...

[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 days ago

Internet over bluetooth is a crime against humanity

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[–] RebekahWSD 20 points 1 day ago

Medicine in general has gotten a lot better. I'm also able to buy stuff like silken tofu without having to drive quite far to find a specialty store that sells it.

[–] [email protected] 27 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The lack of privacy, independence, and freedom that generally comes with childhood.

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[–] TehBamski 23 points 1 day ago (7 children)

I'm glad that Furbys, inflatable furniture, and disposable cameras are no longer mainstream. And may they never return.

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[–] [email protected] 32 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago

May he rot into nothing and be forgotten

[–] [email protected] 26 points 2 days ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

Still using mine daily! Older shows and movies just look better on it.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I like to have one around 😅. I like the look and it'll probably survive me

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Survive you or outlive you?

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