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[–] 11111one11111 4 points 37 minutes ago

Well, duh. A slowly boiling pot of water is just a fucking hot tub for 90% of the time you're in it.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 23 minutes ago

Also the only animal whose greed and hoarding behavior outdoes it's conspecific altruism.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 minutes ago

i don't know US pedons being obideint dogs is anything new... look nazi germany and look at russia. same basic premises, daddy worshiping and oligarch bootlicking.

in other words, this is the human condition because normie needs to feelz good.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 hour ago (2 children)

Its such a shit situation. If you want out, you generally need to get a job in another country. A job in a different country generally pays significantly less than the cost of living in most of the USA, so you need to already have a significant amount of money already saved to even consider it an option.

Most of us are just fucking trapped.

[–] butwhyishischinabook 3 points 58 minutes ago

And in the case of the EU you probably aren't getting in unless you're highly credentialed. For all their shit talking they sure hate large-scale immigration.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 34 minutes ago* (last edited 34 minutes ago)

Maybe I'm missing the point, but COL in other countries is also only a fraction of the US's. We don't live in hunger and squalor over here, you know. Plus, to move, you won't need significant savings.
No, the real issue, as with all migration from high- to low-wage countries, is that you cannot easily return for retirement because you're not going to be able to save enough for the US's housings prices or rents.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Called my mom last night, told her to renew her passport asap.

Most people are like “the waters warm, this is nice, what are you going on about???” And I’m like “hi yes this water is scalding hot and about to boil we need to get out!”

[–] Today 6 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Renewed mine online in October. Received in 12 days.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 39 minutes ago

That was under the previous administration… musk is hollowing out federal jobs so I bet the wait will be tough. Especially as more frogs realize that the pot is boiling…

[–] apfelwoiSchoppen 19 points 3 hours ago

Billionaires are keeping us in the pot, using levers of power that we don't access from the pot.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago) (1 children)

Inside the pot: slowly boiling water

Outside the pot: raging inferno that is heating the pot

When given the option to slowly boil, or jump into a raging inferno, I think most people would think twice about jumping out of the pot.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Pot boiling and the raging inferno are both in America. Go and explore, the world is more peaceful then you think

[–] [email protected] 2 points 27 minutes ago

I understand, but like lots of people in America I was born here and have have had my wages suppressed because of multiple “once in a lifetime” financial crises to the point I can’t afford to travel, and therefore I can’t afford to immigrate.

[–] [email protected] 61 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Don't forget the millions of us chained to the bottom because we have no choice

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Oh hello my friend, you fully drowned yet? I'm getting there.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Having no choice people think we can just jump ship (or I guess the pot) when they don't realize the people who can't do it at all because there chained to it

For instance trans people can't get passports or renew them meaning they have absolutely no way to leave.

We need to stay and help the disenfranchised instead of jumping ship

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 hour ago (2 children)

How so?
Geniunely don't understand how being trans prevents you from getting out?
I'd assume when being asked about your sex, I'd just swallow the pride (no pun intended) and say what the sex at birth was to get the paperwork done. As soon as ones out it won't matter as much anyway.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 minutes ago

This is not the case. Trans people are being denied passports of either gender marker as officials "wait for clarification" on the new rules. Furthermore, passports are being confiscated.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 hour ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 33 minutes ago (1 children)

But even in your source, which does explain the circumstances (which are bad), they mention how it needs to be under the sex that is on your certificate.
I only see an issue with it if you are in-between getting the identification modified as the gears of beaucrarcy grind very slow (ignoring constant interruptions by unecessary policy changes)

[–] [email protected] 1 points 19 minutes ago* (last edited 13 minutes ago)

I only see an issue with it if you are in-between getting the identification modified as the gears of beaucrarcy grind very slow

Or, you know, you live in a red state that fights tooth and nail to not update that information, all in the hopes that this day would eventually come.

Updating your vital records is a state level item, and the process will vary by state, and that's a requirement to get it changed on your Federal passport. Please don't forget that a large amount of states have been trying to pretend these people don't exist, and now the federal government is trying to help make that a reality. For an example of the difficulties as reported 3 years ago:


States requiring proof of surgery, court order or altered birth certificate to change gender marker on driver’s licenses

Georgia.
Guam (U.S. Territory).
Iowa.
Kentucky.
Louisiana.
Northern Mariana Islands (U.S. Territory).
South Carolina.
Tennessee.
Texas.

States requiring proof of surgery, court order or altered birth certificate to change gender marker on birth certificates

Alabama.
Arizona.
Arkansas.
Georgia.
Guam (U.S. Territory).
Iowa.
Kentucky.
Louisiana.
Missouri.
Nebraska.
New Hampshire.
North Carolina.
North Dakota.
Wisconsin.

States barring residents from amending their gender designation on official documents

Montana.
Oklahoma.
Tennessee.
West Virginia


I'll note again that this was 3 years ago, before the massive wave of anti-trans legislation in the last couple of years.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 hour ago

Exactly this thank you

[–] [email protected] 38 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago) (1 children)

As an American who just emigrated, I guess I jumped. I can still vote from overseas, but I'm pessimistic about the future.

[–] Bonje 10 points 8 hours ago

Where to, if you don't mind

[–] slazer2au 32 points 8 hours ago

Yea.....

Post UK Brexit was when I thought the same thing.

[–] latenightnoir 11 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

This would imply that they're not surrounded by other pots filled with water which is (varying degrees of) boiling. We don't really have a Socialist Utopia meeting spot, let's say.

Beyond that, eloping requires a not insignificant amount of money (as a Romanian, I can say that homes/apartments aren't cheap here, either, and we're not exactly L.A.)

And at the other end of the line, immigration's not exactly thought of with fondness, even in Europe. Don't forget, we're stewing in our own pot even if the heat's still relatively tolerable.

[–] Goodmorningsunshine 6 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

This is a problem I'm having now with my boyfriend. I want to get out of the US and he says, "Where? Everywhere's falling to fascism right now. And it's hard and expensive to emigrate." It doesn't help that he also thinks it's not worth it to think about leaving until the water's actually boiling and he has verified it.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 hour ago

he's not wrong..

[–] [email protected] 5 points 7 hours ago (2 children)

Isn't it for all animals. If you keep slowly increasing temperature their body temperature will more easily come to equilibrium with outside temperature than it will if you just put them to hot boiling pot?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 hours ago

Yes but you have to lobotomize the frogs first.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

No, it's a fallacy. What is true is called "creeping normality", and it's absolutely what humans do to large scale and/or slow changes.

[–] Admax 2 points 1 hour ago

If it's not another name for it, it's definitely very close to the Overton Window.

[–] fallowseed 8 points 8 hours ago (2 children)

jordan peterson has some knowledge about lobsters he'd like to share with you.

[–] Diplomjodler3 6 points 7 hours ago

That's what the woke mob would have you believe! The water isn't getting warmer at all! Believe me!

[–] [email protected] 5 points 8 hours ago

Water? Preposterous!

A giant pot of delicious soon-to-be stew, however... mighty tempting, doc! You'll have to treat me right though, you wouldn't want to get food poisoning from stringy meat would ya?

[–] [email protected] -1 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago)

USA != America