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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (4 children)

I guess being white male, and 198cm/6foot6 Though this is a curse also.

I am very comfortable with my own company also, and never get bored so many things to do and learn!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Hey 198cm club!

Everyone thinking you're super strong is both a curse and a blessing too.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago (3 children)

tall is a curse. i know as well

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

I've experienced both extremes of fiscal class: inherited wealth and opportunity as well as prison and homelessness. It's a double edged sword, a great curse and advantage concurrently.

[–] LovableSidekick 3 points 1 month ago (3 children)

I can usually unscramble 5- or 6-letter words on sight.

[–] mapleseedfall 2 points 1 month ago (2 children)
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[–] zxqwas 2 points 1 month ago

Other than randomly being born in a western democracy ranking high on living standard, happiness etc.

I was a good boy and put in the effort in school. I get paid accordingly and have a relatively stress free job.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Pro: I never get seasick, no matter how rough it gets. Con: Terrified of heights and flying.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

My mom is absolutely terrified of heights, to the point where she can't stand on a chair without someone holding it. On tables isn't happening. Ever.

But she's perfectly fine with flying, and does so at least a couple of times per year. I even offered to take her flying in a very small aircraft a while back, and she had no problem with the idea.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Everything higher than the second floor of a building is a big nope to me. My family made me go on holidays via airplane back when I was a wee child and I kept screaming for the entire duration of both flights. They never tried that shite ever again. I mean, what did they expect, really, knowing damn well about my severe anxiety issues? Even today I'd never set foot on any kind of aircraft, even with knockout medication and a million Dollars in return. Just no. I do not belong in the sky. I need solid ground or water under my feet. Interestingly enough it's cool for me to go hiking in the mountains. The mountains are solid and therefore they are my friends. If I fall down, that's on me then.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

Everyone I know owns a business, or is a landlord

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

I'm white, my family is middle-ish class, I don't pay rent.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago (3 children)

I literally have nothing, bruh. Reading this thread reminded me that I am trulu the inferior being.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

I'm seriously lucky, to the point it has been a running joke among my friend group!

It doesn't manifest itself as "everytime I gamble, I win", but more subtly. Finding dollar bills on the ground, having unexpected discounts, getting a dream job, ...

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

20-something English-speaking cis hetero white American male, stable supportive family I keep strong ties with, four-year university STEM degree, gainfully employed at a low-stress job full of people I like that affords a comfortable, reasonably above modest lifestyle, no outstanding debts, no severe health issues or crippling disibilities.

I've certainly won more than my fair share of cosmic lotteries, all things considered.

Only thing I guess I'm missing is a partner, which is entirely due to my own lack of effort. So far sailing solo hasn't bothered me any. But I do occasionally daydream about what I might be missing out on...

[–] FlashMobOfOne 1 points 1 month ago

I was lucky to have money to invest at the right time when the markets crashed in 2008 and 2020, when stocks could be had at a 90% discount. As a result I was able to pay off my student loans and put a down payment on my residence with the profits, just by being willing to wait a few years for the market to recover.

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