The dad still said happy birthday and I love you only to get that text back. Older folks are exposed to a lot of propaganda and many are brainwashed (the hint in this case is the "God bless you"). Without more context I'm hesitant to call him an asshole.

Based on this small exchange I'd be more inclined to say they are both assholes.

It's just sad that they can't look past this and love each other regardless.

[–] [email protected] 48 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Sad that dad can't toss away his transphobia and accept his daughter.

Daughter's behavior is completely justifiable tho. If I was in her place, I would not look past bigotry and basic lack of respect to me

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[–] [email protected] 39 points 1 year ago

The dad wasn't actually wishing a happy birthday. The dad was using his daughter's birthday as an occasion to be transphobic.

[–] [email protected] 27 points 1 year ago

The hint in this case is "God bless you"

That's actually the abuse showing through. It's intentional passive aggression and a manipulative speech pattern. It's meant to imply, "God bless you, even though you're breaking his rules and making him sad and probably going to hell".

And before you ask, I was raised evangelical, was deeply involved in ministry, went to bible school, and even worked at a church for a few years; I know how these people think because I was one until I saw the light and ditched their religion. The number of times I've seen "I'll pray for you/them", "God bless you/them", and such used as insults is too damn high.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago

Oh... Bless your heart...

[–] dreadedsemi 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)

She needs to go back to the surgeon. A pussy shouldn't have sharp angles like that.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

pussy so sharp it [i am not witty enough to continue this joke]

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago

holy gigabased

[–] Chadsalot 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yep, that'll fuckin do it.

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[–] BlovedMadman 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

So you think its OK to send a unsolicited pic of your genitaila, to your dad, given that its because he misgendered you?

Anyone sending unsolicited pics of their balooga, is never OK... In fact. It could actually be a crime. Neither of you come off well in this interaction.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 year ago

You're right, they should have just put up with more abuse. How old are you again?

[–] BlovedMadman 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I seem to be getting a good number votes in both directions, to those down voting me, do you think unsolicited cock/pussy pics are OK? Cus if you do, you are the problem. The dad is a bigot and need to correctly educate himself, but OP responded in a way that is disgraceful. They are both deplorable.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Do you think a lifetime of harrassment is ok? I don't.

[–] BlovedMadman 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (10 children)

Clearly you missed my point... sending indecent images to ANY unwilling and unknowing participant is deplorable and could be a sex crime. How is it different to running around a park and flashing people?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Ahh that one is easy: because it's not a sex crime. Feel free to tell me the statute if I missed something here. Sex crimes include sexual assault, rape and I beleive harassment, however sexual harassment may be covered by other statutes.

You um.. you have an email account right?

You uh.. ever get spam with unsolicited nudes? Or you know, unsolicited commercial email (spam)? You know how those spammers don't get fined or thrown in jail? This is because it isn't a crime, or at least not a well enforced crime.

"Your honor, after paychologically abusing my child for years they sent me a photo of their nude form, something I already have baby photos of. This as I understand it is a crime."

[–] BlovedMadman 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

You have lost it, you are defending the sending of unsolicited indecent photos to individuals who did not ask, nor want them. Both OP and OPs dad are in the wrong here.

Defending one person sending an indecent photos to an unwilling recipient is the same as defending them all.

Leave me alone.

Also I don't get spammed with spam emails, I have better controls around how and when I use my email address to avoid being on marketing lists et al.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

You're a real dumb pile of shit, or are willfully acting in bad faith. Context is key, fuckwit.

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