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Happens about 20mins after I wake up.

Image transcription:Random npc spongebob fish character looking miserable holding a cup during a sunset and another overlayed image of the same guy on the left with the same look.

It is captioned with:

When you already checked your usual 5 apps and don't know what else to do with your day:

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[–] ignotum 82 points 5 months ago (4 children)
  1. Lemmy
  2. Mastodon
  3. Lemmy again
  4. Youtube
  5. Believe it or not, Lemmy
[–] [email protected] 22 points 5 months ago
  1. Lemmy - sort by top 12 hours
  2. Google News
  3. Lemmy - sort by top 6 hours
  4. YouTube
  5. If desperate, Lemmy sort by Hot
[–] [email protected] 12 points 5 months ago (2 children)
  1. Lemmy
  2. Hacker News
  3. BBC
  4. The Register
  5. The Verge
[–] asbestos 6 points 5 months ago

404media maybe?

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 months ago

I’m in this comment And I’m fine with it.

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[–] [email protected] 32 points 5 months ago (12 children)

I think this is a good opportunity to collectively discuss what is causing us to lead this lifestyle.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (5 children)

I had to move to a country with a more introverted culture than the one I grew up in (not the US), and I've struggled finding friends to spend my free time with so far, so I spend it on apps :-( They really are just a last resort and I'd much rather spend my time with actual people like in the olden days :-/

[–] Num10ck 6 points 5 months ago (1 children)

sign up for a class/activity, wear a conversation piece.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Smart move the latter, ~didn't think it.

About the former, I recently realized in practice that it's important to pick up activities etc. that you like and that attract people you can bond with. For example I like weightlefting at gym, but I realized it attracts so many people with repulsive ideologies, while I tried dancing and mobility classes the same gym offers and the environment was much much better, I found many good people there. (I still do weightlifting though and I found some good people there too.)

Plus, voicing your opinions helps a lot to filter people (I'm struggling a lot with this though).

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Everything else requires effort.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Yes. I think what makes these apps appealing is that 1) they can be used unplanned and your time in them doesnt have to be structured, and 2) they can fill up an arbitrarily long or short amount of time.

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[–] Potatos_are_not_friends 8 points 5 months ago (1 children)

When I was a kid, I used to play video games while jumping around. I'd stand in front of the TV, bounce around, play Mario, run in circles. My parents didn't care.

At some point, society said that was weird, and I had a gaming chair?

Watching myself balloon (and already using a standing desk for work) went back to standing while playing video games. I enjoy it!

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 months ago

Chronic pain gang, rise up 💪 (or remain seated)

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[–] Alteon 17 points 5 months ago

Boredom breeds innovation. It's okay to be bored. In fact, I really wish our society would get "legitimately" bored more often.

[–] RaoulDook 16 points 5 months ago (3 children)

So are you people in this meme just on your phone all day looking at stupid phone apps? God, what a waste of life.

Smartphones are just boring little tools guys. Don't make it your life. Be a real nerd, get a PC, and surf the web where there are no limitations set by apps. Play some video games, look at porn sites, do some online shopping or whatever. If you're done with all that, go outside and ride a bike or something.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 5 months ago (2 children)

For me my phone meme time is

  1. 5-10 minutes before I get out of bed in the morning
  2. if I’m bored at work
  3. Poopin
[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 months ago

Good example of why summaries and screenshots are important

Think of the poopers

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[–] cmrn 13 points 5 months ago (2 children)

It’s disgusting how many times I’ll catch myself opening an app I closed less than 2 minutes ago because I was bored.

[–] DrDominate 5 points 5 months ago

I've closed Lemmy and not ten seconds later open it up again.

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[–] Sam_Bass 10 points 5 months ago (2 children)

Then its timeto put down the phone/laptop/tablet, get up off your butt and move around. Maybe even do something while youre up

[–] Potatos_are_not_friends 11 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Eww gross but moving around can lead to death I watched a YouTube video on that. I'm not falling for that

[–] Sam_Bass 10 points 5 months ago

Heres a little known secret: breathing leads to death. So stop it if you want to live forever

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Lol, people here do a lot of assumptions. I typically do like ~9k steps each day, I spent a lot of time outside, go to gym etc. but 1)having hard tasks to do and 2)spending a lot of time alone (alone meaning without interacting face to face with real friends) for various reasons contributes to this.

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[–] BonesOfTheMoon 10 points 5 months ago (7 children)

I gave up conventional social media recently, and I do paid surveys instead. I made 225 dollars in four weeks.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Wait, where did you find this job?

[–] BonesOfTheMoon 4 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Not a job, paid survey apps. HeyPiggy, Five Surveys, Qmee are the best ones.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 5 months ago

Put down your phone. Close your eyes. Imagine one (1) thing. You're cured.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 5 months ago

So you have five different apps to browse Lemmy?

[–] TankovayaDiviziya 8 points 5 months ago (1 children)

*Usual five apps

  1. Lemmy
  2. Lemmy
  3. Lemmy
  4. Lemmy
  5. Lemmy
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[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I remember in the early to mid 2000s when the internet was new and there seemed to be loads of stuff to do.

Was never bored

[–] hswolf 4 points 5 months ago

it is still the same, but we're already conditioned to have everything thrown at us on every single internet interaction, making the thought of searching something new seem like stepping out of our comfort zone

with AIs and what not, this feeling will only worsen

[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 months ago

Time to grab your board (web navigator) and surf (follow hyperlinks) the web (more commonly, the graphical "internet"). Totally rippin the gnar, my gender indeterminate dudes (check out wikipedia). Yeaaaahhh (yes, emphatically)!!!

[–] hypertown 5 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Go for a walk, read a book, watch a movie, play a game it will make you feel so much better. Just remember to change activities every few hours. If you're going to play games for 10h you are probably going to get bored of it way too quickly.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 months ago (2 children)

Go for a walk, read a book, watch a movie, play a game

I'd love to, but I'm at work. There's a bit of a lull between the storms of activity atm, and I would absolutely love to not waste time with just being stuck in the office. But I can't afford it

[–] hypertown 4 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I know how you feel man. I used to work in a job like that. Honestly what saved me was reading some comedy manga on mangadex. Since it didn't require a lot of brainpower and I could just stop reading it whenever I wanted it was perfect for times like this. My head also was in a much better state than after scrolling back then reddit for hours. If you don't like manga you could just find some easy book.

If you can't go for a walk during work go before or after work. I try to cycle every day after work and it always makes me feel better.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 months ago

Can't read a book at the office? Working through a book whenever the queue was empty was one of the few pleasures of working retail/call centre

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 months ago

You play shattered pixel dungeon for the next 20 hours is what you do.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Rss and Rss and just Rss

[Got this post from there as well)

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I see you are efficient by using only 1 app😆

Nice

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 months ago (3 children)

lemmy, im a content piggy. make more content for me to stare at blankly. thanks

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 months ago

Here's your content, open up!

a picture of a long haired cat with its mouth wide open looking at the camera

It's my cat yawning, but it looks like he's screaming at me (which he does do around 17h, his supper time).

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