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and, don't you notice something rubbing against it when you move?

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[-] [email protected] 67 points 1 month ago

Why not spend a few bucks on a thong and find out?

[-] [email protected] 16 points 1 month ago

because I don't want to waste money

[-] [email protected] 35 points 1 month ago

it's only a waste if you don't like it...

[-] slazer2au 46 points 1 month ago

It's only a waste of you don't learn something from it.
It's not a waste to find out you don't like something.

[-] [email protected] 15 points 1 month ago

Omg this is so true! πŸ’…πŸ»

[-] [email protected] 14 points 1 month ago

I wish I had not read your username

[-] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago

Well, it wasn't a waste. You learned something from it!

[-] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago
[-] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago

They're worth it if you get swamp ass. You don't really notice it after like a week of wearing them.

But, only get cotton or modal. The synthetic fabrics just hold moisture against your skin.

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[-] trolololol 7 points 1 month ago

Then maybe buy a used one, or ask a friend to borrow

[-] [email protected] 50 points 1 month ago

Why you all taking about your butts? I wear thongs in the summer. They're quick to slip on and pretty comfortable footwear.

[-] [email protected] 36 points 1 month ago

If your thongs are touching your anus, you're wearing them wrong.

[-] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

Or you've fallen victim to LA CHANCLA.

[-] kryptonite 6 points 1 month ago

"Thong" can mean a type of sandal, also known as flip-flops, but it's also the name of a type of underwear or swimsuit bottom that's basically a string in the back.

I grew up calling flip flops "thongs", but as I got older, people were almost exclusively using that term for the underwear, so I switched terms to avoid confusion.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Flip-flops https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Thong

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[-] Postmortal_Pop 39 points 1 month ago

Guy here, I've worn a few in my time and it's a lot like wearing a new ring on your finger, at first you notice it constantly, you feel it between your fingers and you notice when it moves, but eventually you forget it's even there. Exact same experience with thongs. After the initial sensory experience wears off its as present in your mind as the underwear you're currently wearing. It doesn't move much between the cheeks, and I can't say I've ever explicitly felt it shading my asshole.

Personally I'm not a fan of them because they don't provide the two things I wear underwear for, padding between my thighs so they don't chafe, and decency if I manage to cut it rip my pants while working. If I don't need to worry about those I'll just go commando.

[-] [email protected] 36 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)


Thank you.

Anyway I don't wear them for this exact reason I already have enough urinary tract problems due to early childhood neglect it's like a bacterial conveyer belt.

As for the sensation I couldn't tell you; see above. Interested in other answers though.

[-] [email protected] 33 points 1 month ago

I plug for a couple days at a time every once in a while, honestly you stop noticing the outside contact after a couple hours. Then you forget it's there for the most part until you move and it grinds against your prostate and you're like "oh right this is nice" and you start doing kegels and leaking in your cage

[-] [email protected] 23 points 1 month ago

Lady, the question was "do thongs touch you butthole?"

Please tell whoever is holding the keys that a random on the internet said to let you cum, if not for your own sake then for the rest of ours.

[-] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago


[-] TheControlled 18 points 1 month ago
[-] [email protected] 30 points 1 month ago

That's the first couple steps on a long and possibly terrifying road. Sometimes not knowing is more comfortable. You've been warned.

[-] [email protected] 21 points 1 month ago

Eh, it's not "terrifying" it's just a kink thing and it tends to get a lot of unwarranted negativity (imo because of insecure people). It's definitely not for everyone but, as with nearly all things sexual, it's never a bad idea to investigate things just to see if you're into it.

[-] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

I'm sure some people find it disturbing or terrifying. Certainly not all. As for whether people are into it or not, it's their life and I'm not going to tell them what to do.

[-] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

I'm secure about my sexuality and I still don't like cages - but more because if I'm with a cute submissive guy I really really want to play with his cock y'know, and if he's not going to let me that's a bit of a deal breaker

[-] TheControlled 11 points 1 month ago

Wasn't bad at all. I was waiting for something much more intense. Chastity cage? Pfft.

[-] toofpic 6 points 1 month ago

Yes, I also imagined naked, crazy person writing this comment, giggling and salivating on the floor

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[-] [email protected] 21 points 1 month ago

Chastity cage! =D

To help stop you jerking off. Getting super pent up and horny really really heightens anal for me, and it puts me in a fun subby headspace, even by myself

[-] TheControlled 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Thank you! Another commenter said I should be cautious before googleing it and I imagined pictures of Goatse but x5 intensity. This is kinky, but no more kinky than having a plug in all day.

[-] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago

Pronoun, this is a Wendy's.

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[-] [email protected] 27 points 1 month ago

Some people aren't afraid of their assholes.

[-] [email protected] 24 points 1 month ago

Is it true they play a G note when you fart?

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[-] captainlezbian 22 points 1 month ago

Yes. It’s sexy underwear, not comfortable underwear

[-] LeroyJenkins 4 points 1 month ago

they serve a functional purpose of not showing underwear lines when wearing tight and/or thin articles of clothing. so not always just sexy underwear

[-] unreasonabro 6 points 1 month ago

tight/thin clothes, but not sexy... typical leroy

[-] Num10ck 15 points 1 month ago

not with a butt plug

[-] [email protected] 12 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Isn't that the whole point? But no to the latter question. Your shoes rub your toes but you probably forget about it after a while. Ever wear sandals? There's comfy pairs and uncomfy pairs.

[-] [email protected] 17 points 1 month ago

I love when my sandal's thong rubs my f'anus as I walk, it's a great feeling.

[-] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago

What horrible day to have eyes.

[-] [email protected] 12 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I think it depends on the thickness of the cheeks and thong/string. I have a thicker than average booty for a guy, and I usually just feel thongs rest between my cheeks. If I start doing some crazy stretches or yoga I'm sure it'd get a little closer to the anus as things spread out.

Strings definitely get more up close and personal, but I feel it more on the top of my ass where it meets my back and on my gooch than my anus directly. It definitely goes a little deeper between the cheeks though, but I sure don't feel it rubbing against my anus. The right thong/string should feel like almost wearing nothing.

[-] RBWells 6 points 1 month ago

Yes I suppose it does and no I don't notice it, it doesn't move around like you seem to be thinking. Have worn that type underwear for so long that the full back ones bother me more. Merino wool thong, believe it or not, is so ridiculously cool and comfortable.

[-] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I wear them pretty often in nightlife. I had the worst wedgie from one last night. Usually you don't notice them but mine has thick straps (it's fetishwear, I'm a performer) so yeah...

I also wear a g-string underneath for safety

[-] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

I'll reiterate what most have said. They're not a reoccurring problem and you forget about them after a bit. As for direct contact with the anus, depends on how your body is shaped. If it's puckered in, then it won't. If it's flush with the curve of your inner crack, then it will. I never really paid attention to it.

[-] Dkarma 3 points 1 month ago
[-] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

I'm not sure how this is relevant to the question.

[-] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago

I don't think this is ever irrelevant (regardless the question)

[-] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

wash your ass every time you shit?

[-] TeddE 6 points 1 month ago

Join the bidet club! It's great, and environmentally friendly (making paper uses a bunch of water). There are many models you can add to an existing toilet.

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[-] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

Maybe that's what they want...

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