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What's a bit of good advice that's really bad advice? (self.asklemmy)

submitted 8 months ago by solidgrue to c/asklemmy

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You know, like "always split on 18," or "having kids is the most rewarding thing you can do in life."

What's that one bit of advice you got from a trusted friend that you know deep, deep down would just ruin your thing?

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Can relate, when I start infodumping or talking in depth about stuff I enjoy I can see their eyes glaze over and they want to leave.

[–] A_Random_Idiot 5 points 8 months ago (1 children)

i mean, if its any comfort, my eyes glaze over and I want to leave anytime anyone even starts to talk to me, cause I cant stand social interaction, much less having to look at peoples faces to show i'm "engaged"

[–] Doof -2 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Why would this give anyone comfort?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 8 months ago

It may give comfort to someone feeling socially rejected because, knowing that's something that happens, they may now re-evaluate their previous experience as not having been rejected for having themselves especifically, but because the person they were talking to was dying inside out of their own inertia.