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What's a bit of good advice that's really bad advice? (self.asklemmy)

submitted 8 months ago by solidgrue to c/asklemmy

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You know, like "always split on 18," or "having kids is the most rewarding thing you can do in life."

What's that one bit of advice you got from a trusted friend that you know deep, deep down would just ruin your thing?

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[–] [email protected] 48 points 8 months ago (3 children)

I have worked in the same office for 22 years, no one knows my birthday, what my hobbies are or where I live other than "downtown". There is work me and then the real me and never the twain shall meet.

[–] Jasonw911 25 points 8 months ago (2 children)

You sound like me. Do you want to not hang out sometime?

[–] [email protected] 11 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Sign me up for the not hanging out club!

[–] ohlaph 9 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I won't hang out either.

[–] misterdoctor 9 points 8 months ago (1 children)

You guys mind if I don’t tag along?

[–] qaz 3 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Can I join too?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago

I will say I'll be there, but I'm also going to cancel.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 8 months ago

Absolutely! ☺

[–] berkeleyblue 2 points 8 months ago

Fair. I do that with most coworkers. I have one maybe two I consider friends and we do stuff outside if work. Those are the people that know me. Everyone else knows the work version of me.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Rosa from Brooklyn 99?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 8 months ago

Ha! I love it!