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What non-SMS non-Apple app can I use to "text" my younger kid on their iPad (self.asklemmy)

submitted 11 months ago by KammicRelief to c/asklemmy

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Hi! My less-than-10-year-old has their own iPad (registered under my apple id) and wants to be able to "text" with the rest of the family. Most of us are not Apple people though: Android phones, using some combo of SMS, Discord, and Signal. The little one doesn't have a phone, so I think that prevents us from signing them up for Signal. I could probably install Discord on the iPad, though it doesn't feel ideal. They use iMessage (or whatever it's called) to text a couple other friends/grandma/etc who also have Apple stuff, but what should we use for our mostly-non-Apple family that wouldn't require a phone number?

An internet search pointed me to WhatsApp, Telegram, Viber.... stuff I've never used but it seems popular. Facebook Messenger also, but screw that. Google Chat/Hangouts (or whatever it's called now) is another option, which would require creating a google account.

If nothing else appeals to me we'll probably go the Discord route, and I'll just have to be clear, don't join random servers :) But, anybody out there use WhatsApp with your kid, and does it not require a phone number? I'm open to other ideas! Thank you...

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[–] cheese_greater 3 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

Threema, best $6 eva

[–] KammicRelief 4 points 11 months ago (1 children)

thank you.. that's a few people voting for threema, I'll definitely check it.

[–] Zachariah 3 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Threema is awesome. They even have a Mastodon account: https://mastodon.social/@threemaapp

Here are the settings I recommend during app and account setup:

• Tap next instead of making a Threema Safe password, and Tap Yes, you really want to continue without enabling Threema Safe • Tap next instead of entering your phone number, and tap Yes to confirm you don’t want to enter your phone number • Turn off “Sync contacts”

Make sure to scan each other’s QR codes in person to get your three green dots.

Since you have to pay for the app, it’s less likely you’re the product.

[–] Zachariah 1 points 11 months ago

Oh, and it’s not just messaging. Encrypted audio and video calls, too.