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Either by choice or sheer luck. What is something that has happened to you that made your life actively better?

(So far) For me it has been me finally able to move out of my parents home.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Said screw it and moved to Korea.

I was incredibly lucky and met a Korean in school, so I was able to get all the info I needed about what to expect. I've been here 3 years now, sure I miss my family and friends but I've been granted a new life.

To anyone who thinks their life sucks: move. Everyone has an excuse, but at the end of the day you'll either stay where you are until you die, or you'll go somewhere new.

[–] thorbot 1 points 11 months ago (1 children)

It’s not so easy to just “move” like you say. Most people can’t afford to uproot their lives and start somewhere else. Im happy for you but don’t assume others can just “move” if things are bad for them.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

I made this comment explicitly because people say it's not easy to just "move". The truth is.. Yea, of course it's hard. But unless you have a health condition that requires weekly hospital attendance, it's a matter of how much you want it

[–] thorbot 2 points 11 months ago (2 children)

That’s not true at all. Many are living paycheck to paycheck and can’t afford the price of a major change like this. “It’s a matter of how much you want it” is a brain dead reply. There are people who literally cant afford to live where they are now.

[–] luves2spooge 1 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Teaching jobs will pay for your flight and accommodation (provided you have a degree) . I came to Korea with just enough cash to survive for a month. It's actually not expensive.

[–] thorbot -2 points 11 months ago (2 children)

You are making so many assumptions it’s insane. Not everybody has a degree in teaching. Just stop

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago

Bro you are the insane one here, they were just motivating people, no need to be so toxic

[–] luves2spooge 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

You don't need a degree in teaching. Any degree is enough to meet the visa requirements. If you're single and have no pets it is actually pretty easy.

[–] thorbot 0 points 11 months ago

It must be nice to come from a world where you can just get any degree you want and then have the ability to move whenever you want and find any job in a new country and have the money to float the whole process.

[–] hereforthepopcorn 0 points 11 months ago

Another option would be to become a volunteer and join an organisation that does volunteering work abroad. There are possibilities for them sponsoring your flights, accommodation, and meals.

[–] luves2spooge 1 points 11 months ago

I've been in Korea for coming up on 14 years. It's really a great place to live.