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[–] [email protected] 46 points 1 year ago (4 children)

it’s unlikely that PornHub is going to change you from a liker of vanilla sex to a connoisseur of amputee gangbangs—and certainly not in real life.

Challenge accepted!

[–] [email protected] 26 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Porn made me hate most porn. Artificial, misogynist, abuse-fantasy garbage.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

There is a ton of loving, clearly consensual stuff out there too.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

There is. And I've found a lot of couples that are great. But it's hard to find that amid the millions of "found stepsister asleep" quasi-rape fantasies. And of the ones that do seem loving, it often seems to trend towards the common tropes when they try to make a living at it. So I mostly avoid filmed porn.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

I agree, I thank to all real exhibitionist sharing their normal intime moments with us. Professional porn, even more one pretending to be "amateur" is just awful.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

In case anyone is interested Dipsea is recommended for exotic stories which many people enjoy more than visual media. Erika Lust is recommended for ethically created visual porn. Both have a large variety of content depending on what you like. Also free trials

[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 year ago (3 children)

so I was always destined to be a degenerate, it isn’t the internet’s fault?

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago

Just as god always intended, you degenerate

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Oh man, the shit that gets me nowadays...

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

This better not awaken anything in me.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

It was already in you, buried deep.