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Yeah but at the same time I feel like it's kind of privileged to be able to work in tech because you love coding. I mean everybody should work in jobs they love but I've met a huge number of people who were making slave wages in other fields and moved to coding to make more money. Why should I punish that? Because I find their water cooler conversations to be boring? What if they're the first person in their family to graduate college and they're just trying to feed their family and are actually really good at coding, but their real passion in life is Football? I want to work in a workplace with people I would want to actually hang out with, but it seems petty to penalize people for not liking the same things as me and not having the advantage of a great salary to be able to turn their real passion into a career
So you can ask them what they are passionate about outside of work. Something like:
~~That's not exactly what I want to select for though.~~ I guess leaving it open ended lets them convince me of the culture fit rather than just trying to check a box. Maybe they don't give a shit about science fiction, but they're really into science or art. That's cool, too