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Even if it wasn't so much "manipulative".

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 7 hours ago (2 children)

Has this ever backfired on you? While your motive is wholesome, I could see the practice itself seeming creepy. Like keeping notes of someone else's life.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 hour ago

I find it less creepy and more disingenuous. But I can appreciate the intention.

[–] macrocarpa 10 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Yep. There's people that want to keep distance at work and don't appreciate it. Just have to respect that and leave them to it.

[–] partial_accumen 6 points 6 hours ago

Yep. There’s people that want to keep distance at work and don’t appreciate it. Just have to respect that and leave them to it.

  • Jane (wife.)
  • likes the pool cleaner boy and has been sleeping with him behind her husband's back for 8 months.

Some people just don't like to have their hobbies shared.