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[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 months ago (3 children)

How would one find a partner in a big city?

[–] NickwithaC 17 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Bars

Shared interest groups

Your friend introduced you

In that order

[–] kautau 11 points 2 months ago

And I think specifically bars, not clubs. You won’t be able to have a conversation with someone in a club, though if you are stand out attractive, that probably doesn’t matter

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] NickwithaC 9 points 2 months ago

You don't have to drink, it's just that's where people are.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

So same as those outside of big cities

[–] Klear 4 points 2 months ago

That also amazes me.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago

My friend actually met his husband at a speed dating event at a local video game bar called Battle and Brew. This was in metro Atlanta, which depending on where you live may it may not be considered a big city lol.