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What's something you've been called in life that isn't generally something bad, but made you feel awful (self.asklemmy)

submitted 5 months ago by DarkDiamondK to c/asklemmy

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For me, growing up, I was around people who saw games as useless and a waste of time, but I loved them

I've always been into computers and tech and was called techy and a gamer and each time, it was said with a sort of disgust from the person saying it.

It made me feel like I shouldn't be friends with the few people like me, and I spent a lot of my childhood staying away from people, and making sure that people didn't learn that I played games

Even now, I get slightly uncomfortable being called a gamer or techy or any synonym even though people don't really think that anymore around here.

Anyone else have something similar?

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 5 months ago (2 children)

A lot of people seem to hold us asexuals as worthless because we don't want families or don't want traditional families, and many of these people speak their minds to me all the time, especially when they perceive an inconsistency in me applying the label to myself that isn't really an inconsistency as much as a technicality.

[–] Resol 2 points 5 months ago

As an asexual Moroccan, I was indeed a victim of this.

[–] roofuskit 2 points 5 months ago

The best people in the world are people who don't want kids and then don't have them. The worst are the people who don't want kids and do have them.

But procreation (or not) aside, people have way more worth to society than that.