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So, how many of you are actually gay?

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[–] [email protected] 34 points 2 years ago (1 children)

If you mean gay as in homosexual: I'm not

If you mean gay as in happy: I'm not

[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 years ago (1 children)

As a bisexual, I often use the word gay to describe myself, so it isn't exclusively meant for homosexuals.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago

Same. I'm non binary, pan sexual... But I'm also gay af

[–] [email protected] 19 points 2 years ago (2 children)
[–] phuntis 7 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

same if we assume the people that moved over here from the sub are even demographics and no group was more likely to move then it'll be about 50% bi guys

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 years ago
[–] AdaleiM 12 points 2 years ago (3 children)
[–] dsmaster7173 7 points 2 years ago

your heteromantic orientation is queer imo

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Excuse me, you are what? Hetero asexual but what is grey?

[–] AdaleiM 6 points 2 years ago

grey is like I'm unsure, I think? Used to be just plain ace but it's been changing the older I get.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 years ago
[–] animelivesmatter 9 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

(gray? idk)aroace agender, so a lot of people would consider me to be "gay", even if I'm not really homosexual. Definitely queer, though

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 years ago (1 children)

hello there other ace/grayace peep! nice to see ya :)

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 years ago

Hey, found the aces what's up? I'm ace / pan romantic? (don't quote me on the second part)

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 years ago

I'm not gay

I'm a polyamorous biromantic demisexual.

Or just Bi when the normies ask.

[–] Dver 8 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I don't really figured it out yet, but I'm (cis male) in a happy relationship with trans man, if it counts!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago

I don't think you neccesarily have to have a label, as long as you're happy with yourself and your partner!

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 years ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 years ago

I am so gay i like men, women and enbies.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 years ago

Cis straight but everybody should be themselves

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 years ago

I'm not gay, just deeply closeted.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 years ago

I have no idea, frankly

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 years ago

me me me!!

mostly at least

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 years ago

I'm ace/grayace, so definitely queer at least! But I haven't been in a relationship with anyone of the same gender, and I don't feel random sexual attraction to them or anyone, so... maybe? I'll see I guess!

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Im poly and Omni (though heavily leaning towards the femme side), does that count as gay?

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 years ago

Bi i guess. But maybe not anymore idk i loose intrest in relationships after a couple weeks so I've stopped looking

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 years ago

Am trans and pansexual ^^

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 years ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 years ago

🙋‍♂️

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 years ago
[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 years ago

I am a flaming dy**!

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago

I'm a bi cis male currently in a gay relationship :>

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago

poly bi non binary trans I think that's it

[–] donkeythesnowman 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

Cis White dude becoming middle aged soon:X.. But this community shares my values, humor and has always made me feel welcome on Reddit so it was natural to join here. Confused about 195 though?

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago

I'm not actually gay, I'm just bi and NB with a slight preference for NB

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago

Queer ❤️‍🔥

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago

Closeted transbian, so: very gay, but currently in a straight-passing relationship. My girlfriend is bi, so maybe one day we can be gay instead of pretending to be straight.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago

I am nonbinary

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

It's interesting how most of the answers are not just "gay" or "straight" but more complex, because it definitely is for me. I'm pansexual but definitely more into girls. And cis male but wishing I could be a femboy lol

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

I’m trans and queer, but not exactly gay.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

Actually gay, as opposed to...?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

Somewhere between 90% and the whole rainbow I imagine.

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