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Every day, all day, I have to lie to clients at work and tell them I'm good. I'm far from good and lying about it constantly is killing me.

I'm incredibly lonely and almost everything I usually enjoy feels like a goddamn chore.

Anyone else here feel like that? If so, how do y'all cope?

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[–] Mrkawfee 4 points 9 hours ago

"I am enveloped by the cold embrace of the void"

[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 hours ago

It is infuriating. I've taken to answering the question more literal. "How" am I? Well, it depends who you ask but the leading scientific consensus is that our known universe began to take shape in what's known as the great expansion. And then...

You gotta make people learn to stop asking you that.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 hours ago

I hated that question when I worked at jobs where I got yelled at by customers.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

I don't know what your job is but I just either ignore the question immediately moving on, or give a short honest answer. I work at a servo though and that might not work.

Breathing is the answer that gets the best response for me.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Breathing? Just standing there, breathing, without giving an answer? What does breathing mean here?

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 hours ago

I stopped saying I'm good. I just kinda shrug. If they ask how it's going, I tell them it hasn't stopped, and that's supposedly a good thing so...eh.

[–] [email protected] -5 points 9 hours ago

I'm far from good and lying about it constantly is killing me

I suggest you consider talking to your doctor or a mental health professional. If you feel a long way from ‘good’ some professional assistance might help improve your way.

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