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Depressed? Just seek professional help!
too depressed to schedule an appointment
wait time is months
have to rely on abusive parents' money to fund the treatment costs, because depression is making me unable to work
parents constantly accuse me of faking depression so that I have an "excuse to be lazy"
larents have fear of medications like anti-depressants and don't want me to have them
Me: ๐๐ซ (too cowardly to pull the trigger ๐ญ)
Don't direct your rage, grief etc. purely inward, dude. Don't let the assholes win.
This. There are much more deserving targets for hatred. You did nothing to earn it.
Don't forget your wallet, none of this is free...
"Visit our office at the top of three flights of stairs to be assessed for disability funds"
The Department for Work and Pensions (DWP) was apparently doing this a few years ago. They would book people in for appointments in an upstairs room and put out of order signs on the lifts. Anyone who made it to the room was automatically denied their benefits.
I say apparently because I didn't personally know anyone who went through that one. The office that I had to visit had a car park, but no spaces near the door. I was dropped off by the door while my wife parked the car, but another person drove themselves and walked from the car. Their claim was denied, based on the distance they walked.
Of course not taking into account that sometimes you can push yourself harder if you really must, but you will pay for it later. Like having to recover in bed for hours or days later.
It's too true. Yet the person who has a spouse (to help them get to the appointment) can lose benefits because of their spouse's income.
I am also avoiding marriage because any spouse with a job can make me lose my benefits. The welfare office even made it clear my request for a live-in aide would be denied if I so much as dated the person who was doing the service. They (aka the government) really don't want me (aka poor disabled people) to be in a relationship. What working-class couple can survive with only one income?
It's why despite being with my husband almost 20 years, we aren't married. He'd lose everything.
That's the position that I'm in. I get PIP, the non means tested disability allowance, but because my wife works, we're not entitled to anything else.
I can't really complain, as we're doing better than a lot of people, but it doesn't exactly feel great knowing that we don't qualify for any other help.
My friends and I recently took the Cat-Q test, which is a questionnaire used to assess how much one "masks" autistic traits. We took it casually because one friend brought it up, then compared results with each other.
But while filling it out, every one of us had to stop and consult each other because of ambiguous questions. We also found the design of the answers (which are all ranges from "Strongly Disagree" to "Strongly Agree") to be difficult to work with. There's no official explanation to clarify vague statements, and the responses we wanted to give would've varied depending on context. One friend (the one with the most psychology training) said to "fill it out as if we hadn't acquired coping mechanisms yet." Which makes sense, but isn't stated anywhere on the questionnaire.
We're autistic, damn it - the psychologists designing a diagnostic tool for us should know full well that without clear directions, we're going to struggle to fill out this sort of form. I understand it's just a tool, possibly one used during bs insurance situations, and thus is designed to benefit someone besides us. At the same time, there are so many simple ways this questionnaire can be made less stressful for the people who fill it out, that it's almost insulting to keep it as-is.
Honestly, my takeaway from that test, was that that was the point. If you struggle to complete the test, you are on the spectrum, regardless of the actual answers you give.
Are we siblings? My parents were the same way (they might still be, but for the sake of my mental health I don't discuss autism with them.) Add in that when a kid shows intelligence in other areas, a lot of people are quick to dismiss the idea that they may struggle with anything. Sure makes it fun when you can't recognize your own speech's tone or volume, and now you're in trouble yet again because obviously you're intentionally being rude.
Sorry, I had to rant for a moment there. My tone still causes me issues (as recently as this week!) despite me putting on the cheeriest mask I can muster. Not sure what else I can do, but after 36 years of trying, it sure would be nice to receive some understanding.
Last time I went to Canada, my roaming wasn't working, so I called customer service from another number and I was told I should call from the phone number having problem instead.
"Make an appointment to get help for your condition that makes it difficult to keep appointments"
That reads like someone trying to get an ADHD diagnosis.
:(
yeah been there, well, still am, my doc told me to make an appointment with another doctor to check if i can take stimulants... that was nearly a year ago :) it already took me several years to even try to get a diagnosis
to add insult to injury, the "two hours away" is by car
Fuck this is pretty much applying for SSI in Amerikkka
People die while waiting for social security benefits to be approved, it is a feature and not a bug. Fuck this system that says you can't even have $2k worth of combined assets without losing your benefits. Or that half of your spouse's income is "deemed" to you and cuts into your benefits.
Been applying for 13 years so yep absolutely true