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Femcel Memes

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Welcome to femcel memes. A place where anybody can post memes that fit the vibe.

Warning: We have a tendency to post things that may at times come from a self-deprecating perspective or things that are funny coming from another queer person. This space will always be a safe place for transfems, non-binary people, people with a feminine gender expression (GNC or otherwise) or anybody else in the LGBT Community to come together and share about our experiences but we truly feel that laughing about the sometimes silly and embarrassing parts the queer experience can help bring us together. We never mean offense or harm in anything posted but rather they are satirical takes coming from queer people.

A note about 'Egging': Our community is mostly made up of transfem individuals, and as such most memes posted will be posted with the intention of having a transfem perspective. However, regardless of gender identity, all feminine presenting individuals are welcome here. Whether that means you're NB, GNC, transmasc, or any other identity, you are welcome here. It is not our intention or goal to invalidate these identities. If something makes you uncomfortable, please feel free to report the post and I will address your concerns on an individual level. For more information regarding the problems with 'Egg-culture', please see Here.

Love Y'all and thank you for following this community

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[–] Iheartcheese 45 points 2 days ago (3 children)

If your banned I'm definitely banned. I'm a dude I just like the memes

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago

Same bro some good shit here

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 days ago
[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 days ago (2 children)
[–] PieMePlenty 11 points 1 day ago

No shame there. Mules are hard working.

[–] trashgirlfriend 5 points 1 day ago

It's ok you can change that

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I've had real sex, but as a man, because I'll never br a real woman ;(

[–] Ziglin 3 points 19 hours ago

You can be if it's what you want!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 18 hours ago

"I'll never be a real woman"

- real woman :3

[–] [email protected] 135 points 2 days ago (7 children)

Girlies I must confess I'm not a real femcel

I'm a man

[–] [email protected] 79 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Okay confession time.

I'm three racoons in a trenchcoat

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Oh yeah? Well im a crow piloting a meatsuit! CAW, MOTHERFUCKERS!

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🤖CAW!

[–] DarkDiamondK 33 points 2 days ago

I must also confess I'm a man, I just like these memes

[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 days ago

I just think FEMCEL MEMES are pretty neat

[–] [email protected] 32 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (6 children)

So you are government robot?

I was joking here, but as long as you are not one of those incels who just straight up hate on all women and men and call them stupid names, and just enjoy shitposting and memes you are good.

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[–] Randelung 14 points 2 days ago

Move to the US, problem solved.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

i have only esex, does that count or am i still cel

[–] [email protected] 2 points 18 hours ago

well if its enough for u thats what matters :3

[–] [email protected] 20 points 2 days ago (1 children)

i have to confess... i am a boy.

[–] Agent641 11 points 2 days ago

I have to confess, I thought this com was about nanobiotech

[–] [email protected] 59 points 2 days ago (8 children)

I usually put on a brave face here, but I must admit that I'm still a lil sad that I've never experienced a relationship; less for the sex and more for the connection. I don't truly know if anyone I've met in person has ever been into me (except for the person who gave me unwanted massages, but that isn't the same) >_<

Heavier stuffI've never liked the idea of meeting people or doing things just for relationships. I'm not proactive in any way, as almost all of it feels desperate and scary. I don't like interacting with ulterior motives, and I get so uncomfortable when it comes time to flirt. On top of that socializing is so tiring, and I'm just not motivated enough to do more than the minimum. It's hard work, so it doesn't get done because I suck at doing things that I'm not motivated to do.

Being wanted online is something, but I still yearn more substantial experience. While I have learned to handle the shame, I can't help my feelings of loneliness. I can't fully fill that hole with family, friends, or online community. I'd probably want it again just as much if I did have it in the past, but at least I wouldn't be as scared. At least I'd understand more than unrequited feelings

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

This whole time I just assumed you were lonely depression posting ironically. Your brave face is effective.

<3 take care I wish you the best <3

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

It mostly is ironic. I'm in a good place overall, but I still have these moments. The "brave face" is more about me being bold and not a shy lil bean >~<

plus...this is probably related to hormone cycles. Thanks e!

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 days ago

Too real for my horny depressed lemmy

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 days ago (1 children)

:( I really feel this. I'm so horribly lonely and touch starved, but it's so scary and uncomfortable to try to "put myself out there" and it feels so awkward and wrong to actively flirt with / pursue someone.

I don't know how old you are, but I've been out of school for a few years and it feels like I've missed my opportunity of finding a relationship when I was surrounded by people. Now I can barely leave the house, and even if I did actually meet someone I don't see how people my age who have been in 5+ relationships would even be interested.

Also I've at least been in a "relationship" when I was a kid, and just having a fuzzy memory of what it's like to cuddle and kiss someone makes it feel worse to be alone. So I don't think having something in the past always helps.

Anyway I hope you find love some day.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

I hope you do too ❤

[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Oof, that hit me harder than I expected. I imagine love is one of those things that get easier once you've done it once and know how to recognize it, but right now I wouldn't know what it's like at all. I've never in my life been in a situation where I thought I could make a move. I must have missed at least one opportunity, I refuse to believe I've never even stood a chance.

Have you tried group travel? It allows you to interact with new people without any expectations. It's also very low stakes because you don't have to see any of those people again after the trip.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 days ago (1 children)

After being a semi-whore in high school and having a long term ex: the only thing that's changed for me is I no longer want people who are into me because they're also lonely. It never lasts, or ends well, or goes well once they stop feeling lonely. I've never had someone tell me I'm a bad person or I could do something better, I just wasn't what they actually want. And I have not leanred how love works in the slightest either lol

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

That's the strange part. I probably understand more about building a healthy relationship at an intellectual level. I know that you need to genuinely be good friends with someone for a relationship to last. I've seen such relationships, as well as those that didn't have it, so I'm not clueless. The hard part is reaching out

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[–] [email protected] 80 points 2 days ago (5 children)

banned

no but really, its more of a vibe here than a rule, were all horny depressed girlies with a passion for sharing dumb memes and making each other smile, and i wouldnt want it any other way :3

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[–] gnomesaiyan 40 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Well, shit. Transfem here and my wife just pegged me last night. Do I have to unsub?

[–] [email protected] 32 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Nah, as long as you appreciate the lonely+horny+sad vibe

[–] Randelung 29 points 2 days ago (1 children)

That's not even fem specific! Anyone can be a femcel!

Especially now that everyone in the US is a woman by definition.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I must confess, im not actually a femcel im just a depressed AroAce Transfem :3

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I must confess, I'm.... Well I'm in some sort of Ace and kinda Aro relationship so I still yearn for someone to kiss me (lucky me that it's an open relationship but I'm not gonna find anyone who wants to kiss me)

!my gf does sometimes play with my tits tho and it's the fucking best feeling ever!<

Edit: spelling

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

what is Aero here? :o or is it just Aro? >v<

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

Ah shit I should really learn how to spell (or disable autocorrect)...

Yeah I meant Aromantic

[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 days ago

Alright brag much, sheesh

[–] [email protected] 20 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Wait..... is this not a trans community?? 🙃❓️

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

it's fairly trans, but not totally. Cisfem perspectives are welcome, as are those of feminine boys

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I know there's a lot of trans who frequent here but the femcel concept has nothing to do with trans I thought?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

I'd prefer if you didn't refer to us as "trans." We're people :)

[–] Droggelbecher 30 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Girlies confession time. I'm not a real femcel. Turns out I'm non binary. So sorry.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 days ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 27 points 2 days ago

Tbh having sex or not doesn't really matter to our vibe of femcel, that's more of a /r/femaledatingstrategy thing which is definitely for the best

[–] [email protected] 21 points 2 days ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 30 points 2 days ago

I'll confess too, I don't belong here I just like to make people laugh and comment pretty much everywhere :P

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