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submitted 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) by NONE_dc to c/[email protected]
 

All I hear about is "boomers" this, "Millennials" that, "Gen Z" that, etc.

Why no one talk about Gen X? What happened to them? They just vanished like in Infinity War? Or are we mistaken Gen Z by Boomers?

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago)

Gen X here, we're labeled the invisible generation for a reason.

That said I don't really give enough fuks to be involved, the real fight is inequality, not age.

[–] BothsidesistFraud 7 points 18 hours ago

We're still here.

Generation discourse honestly panders to the lowest common denominator intellect. People who constantly talk about boomers or millennials are usually pretty dumb.

The reason you don't hear much about Gen X is "we" didn't cause anything culturally significant in an enduring when "we" were in our 20s.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 day ago (6 children)

A couple of factors: Back in olden times, before Douglas Coupland applied the Generation X moniker in 1991, they used to talk about the Baby Bust generation. The Baby Boom was when all of the GIs got back from the war and all started getting jiggy at the same time. Then, the birth rate dropped significantly. In my elementary school, we had combined grades 2/3, and grades 4/5, because there weren't enough kids enrolled for full classrooms otherwise.

Also, the Baby Boom generation is defined as 1946 to 1964, which is 19 years, compared to the 16 years of what we call Generation X now, from 1965 to 1980.

Granted, is not a huge difference—71 million Boomers and 73 million Millennials vs. 64 million Gen X—but there's fewer of us. But also, the name and the generational categories are pretty recent developments. When Coupland's book came out, I was too young to be Gen X, the people he was writing about were adults out into world. I wasn't part of the classic Gen X disaffected-slacker culture, and its touchstones don't really resonate with me. It wasn't until years later that the definition of Generation X definitively included me. That's why you'll often see a lot of younger Gen X identify with the Xennial label, because we have a lot more in common with "elder Millennials," which makes the whole cohort less cohesive.

It's almost like the generational cutoff years are arbitrary, and that society changes continuously, and not in discrete jumps. It's almost like, too, that something unspeakably neo-liberal happened in 1980, and the real division is between the people who came of age before they pulled up the ladders to prosperity behind themselves (Boomers and older Gen X) and the people who came of age after (Xennials, Millennials, and so on). Nevermind, sorry, that's just some anti-capitalist hogwash. /s

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

The breaks are subjective, irregular, determined by consensus. Generally they're determined by significant societal events and their impact on people based on where they are in life.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 hours ago

Indeed, and I realized in the process of writing that comment that the famous graphs showing the growth of productivity vs. the growth of real wages explain a whole lot more about people's experiences than the consensus generational divisions.

[–] NONE_dc 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It's almost like, too, that something unspeakably neo-liberal happened in 1980

I really hope Reagan is burning in hell 🔥🔥

[–] [email protected] 5 points 17 hours ago

Reagan is in hell waiting for heaven to trickle down.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 22 hours ago

In the UK we’re more properly known as “Thatcher’s Children”, which gives a better idea of how disenfranchised we were growing up in the 80s.

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[–] RememberTheApollo_ 22 points 1 day ago

We’re still being forgotten.

The boomers held on to power for such a long time that X never really got a generational chance to change things or sit in the driver’s seat. They were left waiting in the wings for their turn. The millennials were pretty pissed off for a lot of reasons and made a lot of noise, so they overshadowed X, and they’ve been maneuvering for their opportunities in the driver’s seat.

So basically X got mostly left out. Doesn’t mean we couldn’t fuck things up, though. We were the biggest trump voters by generation.

[–] mgtzbos 12 points 1 day ago

Here is GenX

41% make up the US House of Representatives 28% make up the US Senate 42% of governors

Some GenXers: Elon Musk Jeff Bezos (squeaked in) Jack Dorsey (Formerly Twitter) Michael Dell (Dell CEO) Satya Nadella (MSFT CEO)

And in 2018, about 40% of F500/Inc500 CEOs were GenX.

So, not missing. We just don’t wear our generational name as a badge. What’s the point?

[–] [email protected] 34 points 1 day ago (2 children)

It's the working class vs the 1%, not generation vs generation

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

yeah, the generation blame game is getting kinda old

[–] NONE_dc 4 points 1 day ago

Totally agree, comrade ✊

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Being a "late" Boomer, I see gen x having a lot of similarities with me. Running loose in the neighborhood, doing stupid shit that probably should have killed us, absent parents who just wanted us independent and out of their hair.

We remember old shit (music, phones, computers) transitioning into new shit. I think it's a spectrum Boomer->Gen x. A lot of similarities.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Man, it's always weird hearing this, because as a millenial this sounds exactly like my experience growing up.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It's a spectrum. Lots of parents in millennial days were doing the same s***, but I think it was more in a rural setting.

Back in Gen x and Boomer days this was suburbia.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Most millennials were born in the 1980s, smart phones didn't come about until 2006+

Most of our lives were outside as kids. I got my first cell phone at 18, 2 years after I had already been working 40 hour weeks while going to school and my parents finally got sick of not having a way to get a hold of me. Comically their cell phone bill went down because the company I worked for gave them 25% of their bill when they added my phone so they didn't want me to have a separate plan.

I still remember my mother calling me sometime that year and asking if I'd come to dinner and I had to tell her I was over 1,000 miles away because I flew to Boston.

I think I was 22 when I started staying indoors more. Took a desk job and got overweight and lazy.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

I think it would be great for understanding if each generation did a little bio like this just to give a sense of where they're coming from. Too many people assuming shit they don't know.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 day ago

Someone has to write all these shitty articles how bad the other generations are.

[–] mwproductions 15 points 1 day ago

You could call them The Silent Generation.

...

No, wait...

[–] conicalscientist 5 points 1 day ago

Nothing happened. The generational war another facet of culture war. It doesn't make sense because you have to ask what the fuck happened to Gen X? Why don't they fit into the picture? Why doesn't the data add up? That should tell you something. Your experiment is flawed. The culture war doesn't make sense.

[–] Brkdncr 79 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (19 children)

A lot of gen x got theirs. College was paid for and was cheap, lots of opportunities while they were young, got a house, a family and are just living. They will get a fair inheritance if their parents die on time, but they are also the first to see that huge nest egg disappear to the current healthcare system.

Their vote never counted. Too many boomers.

They were the first to figure out their parents had it incredibly easy, although it took them a long time. Sometimes they didn’t see it until their own kids struggled with costs and employment.

A lot are conservative but probably because they have assets and don’t like social welfare taking from them, even though their parents set it up for them to lose.

They aren’t as tech savvy as millennials.

[–] Quicky 21 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

They aren’t as tech savvy as millennials.

Yeah, this is nonsense. Gen X were the generation that had to adapt to emerging technology in the workplace, when that technology itself wasn’t designed with user-friendliness at its core, and usually without an education that prioritised that. They worked with obscure hardware and obtuse software. They then continued to adapt as the Internet became prevalent and software within offices evolved. They saw the most change, and remain in the workforce.

As time has gone on, technology has simplified for the user. As such, Gen X are absolutely the generation that taught their parents how to solve their IT issues, and the ones that continue to teach their children, with Xennials being the peak of that curve.

Anecdotally, my teenage kids fly around an iPhone, but still think a computer is the fucking monitor.

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[–] spittingimage 33 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (5 children)

They aren’t as tech savvy as millennials.

I'm GenX. If you ask my group of friends "who here has built their own PC from components?" every hand is going to go up. Including the teacher, the administrator and the financier.

Ask a group of Millennials who knows what the command line is for and see what reaction you get.

GenX is the generation that does tech support for its parents and its children.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Kind of... It's really that weird bridge period between the two generations. 1980 seems to be the sweet spot. The further your birth year is from it, in either direction, the less tech savvy they seem to be.

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[–] [email protected] 25 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (4 children)

They aren’t as tech savvy as millennials.

We built the tech. I was there, three decades ago.

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[–] [email protected] 30 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Ronald Reagan happened to GenX.

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[–] [email protected] 93 points 2 days ago (10 children)

were the hidden generation, hiding in plain sight between 2 larger messes.

[–] [email protected] 51 points 2 days ago

the middle child generation.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Boomer is honestly just used as a generic term for older people who are out of touch in one way or another. Millennial was a generic term for young people the speaker didn't like, but it's finally been replaced by zoomer which is more age appropriate, but it took a long time. It's not that people are ignoring Gen X, it's that most of the time when people use the term they just mean older/younger people in general.

TLDR, Gen X is probably lumped in with the term "boomer" (obviously the context matters, but this is the TLDR).

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[–] DragonsInARoom 2 points 1 day ago

Remember the Silent Generation? Me neither

[–] LovableSidekick 14 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Maybe they're just lying low so nobody will blame everything on them.

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[–] RBWells 21 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Nah we are here, just staying out of the drama I guess. Busy working. My guess is we aren't enough of a market - not the desirable-to-marketers 18-30 age group, and not a huge group with money like the boomers. So we are not targeted as much.

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[–] [email protected] 35 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (4 children)

We took the brunt of everything the Boomers could throw at us. You're welcome. Its your turn now, we're tired.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

For some reason, the internet has mistaken gen X for boomers with the "ok boomer" meme. Anyone over 40 is a boomer to the young. Completely unbeknownst to the fact that real baby boomers are literal senior home elderly people

[–] Putykat 7 points 1 day ago

Not really. 60 is the youngest boomer. People in their 60s are still on the workforce.

[–] Surp 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Gen x was busy voting trump to further fuck themselves 😂. Many of them did fine and own property. Millennials and Gen z are the ones that were fucked with a spiked dildo more so from the combined greed of Gen x and boomers. Many gen xers I know live by the philosophy that "my parents were that way and so am I" basically meaning they weren't brought up to think for themselves.

[–] negativeyoda 4 points 22 hours ago

Gen X here.

LOL

[–] [email protected] 42 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (3 children)

"Boomers" has been misappropriated by younger generations to mean anything from older people they disagree with, older people they feel have undue privileges they don't have, or older people who were born before the internet became widespread.

The scapegoating mostly points at gen-X'ers though, not true boomers. The boomers are hitting the retirement homes at this point.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago

We're just waiting. See you soon.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 day ago (6 children)

Gen X is a conspiracy. None of them actually exist.

My Canadian girlfriend (well, now wife) is from Gen X - I swear.

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 days ago (4 children)

Love y'all, but on bluesky gen X has been behaving like boomers more and more often. Maybe it has to do with hitting a certain age and becoming "get of my lawn"?

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