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cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/20742350

If anyone hits a paywall: Archived version of the article

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[–] AnUnusualRelic 5 points 9 hours ago

He grew up in scientology, no wonder he's completely fucked up.

[–] homesweethomeMrL 16 points 1 day ago

TW: rape, Scientology

[–] Cris_Color 19 points 1 day ago* (last edited 21 hours ago) (1 children)

Spoiler

Gaiman asked her, to sit on his lap. Pavlovich stammered out a few sentences: She was gay, she’d never had sex, she had been sexually abused by a 45-year-old man when she was 15. Gaiman continued to press. “The next part is really amorphous,” Pavlovich tells me. “But I can tell you that he put his fingers straight into my ass and tried to put his penis in my ass. And I said, ‘No, no.’ Then he tried to rub his penis between my breasts, and I said ‘no’ as well. Then he asked if he could come on my face, and I said ‘no’ but he did anyway. He said, ‘Call me ‘master,’ and I’ll come.’ He said, ‘Be a good girl. You’re a good little girl.’”

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Edit: spoilered for graphic description of sexual abuse quoted from the article

[–] [email protected] 2 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

Put a spoiler on this, ffs

[–] Cris_Color 4 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

That's fair, I've fixed it. Sorry about that.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Thank you. Very much appreciated. 🙏

[–] Cris_Color 3 points 20 hours ago

Certainly, hope you have a good day my friend :)

[–] TrickDacy 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Can't view the original link due to paywall and the archived link never loads :/

[–] homesweethomeMrL 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It worked for me, no paywall, but here's an archive link which should work:

Archive

[–] TrickDacy 0 points 1 day ago
[–] PP_BOY_ -4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Never liked this guy or the cult of personality he seemed to have behind him TBH

[–] SirSamuel 12 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I continue to find his world building to be fantastic.

I also can pirate everything he's made. So, basically, it's guilt-free entertainment

[–] LesserAbe 2 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

I can understand having already been into his work, but since I'm not I certainly would pick almost any other thing to read than Gaiman.

[–] Zero22xx 1 points 2 hours ago

I struggle with separating the art from the artist, personally. Even though I was previously a Gaiman fan, I don't think I'll ever be able to read or watch his work again without thinking about this. I'm getting used to finding out that certain musos or actors are pieces of shit though. I think at this point, Keanu Reeves might be the last famous man left that would absolutely shock me if he turned out to be an abuser or bigot.

[–] PP_BOY_ 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Do you have any good recs? I've read Coraline and started American Gods and neither really gripped me that much, even if I love the Laika Coraline film

[–] mbgid 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I'd recommend Anansi Boys, Good Omens and if you're into comics, The Sandman.

My favourite of his works is Ocean at the End of the Lane, but I'm very conflicted about that one due the parallels pointed out in this article.

Edit: removed American Gods from the recommendations as you said you had already tried it.