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A genie appears before you and says you must choose to be very physically attractive, but slightly below average intelligence, or very intelligent, but slightly below average attractiveness? Which would you choose, and why?

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[–] theywilleatthestars 29 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Smart, being beautiful would just get attention from boring people

[–] Anticorp 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

But if you're not smart then those would be your people.

[–] theywilleatthestars 6 points 1 week ago

I don't want to be boring

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[–] [email protected] 27 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] Anticorp 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

The only people you fool are other stupid people though.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago

That's cool though, there's so many of us that you'll never run out of fools to dupe.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 week ago (5 children)

Why so many people think being smart means getting phd's and good job/money?

Good job, phd's require discipline not smartness and often being attractive gets you better confidence/charisma, thats far far more important for getting good money or recognition than smartness

[–] wildcardology 4 points 1 week ago (2 children)
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[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 week ago (5 children)

I think being intelligent gets you better jobs and more money sooo 🀷

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 week ago

Ignorance is bliss.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)

My intelligence makes me depressed, so beautiful.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

As someone with below average intelligence I can tell you it really doesn't. Trust me, having a low intelligence doesn't make your life easier it just makes it harder and puts you at a massive disadvantage. It's the most soul crushing experience there is. You can become beautiful but intelligence is forever, be thankful for what you've got.

[–] NineMileTower 12 points 1 week ago

I am lucky enough to already be both, so I don't have to choose, thank you very much.

[–] Psythik 12 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Ignorance is bliss, so I'll take beauty. I just want to be happy.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I mean slightly below average is not bad attractiveness wise. Less hassel to some degree, especially if your a woman. below average intelligence though can really hamstring you. Intelligence all the way. Doesn't say gorgeous though or genius. sounds to me like I would basically be asking for the genie to do nothing based on my academic achievements and dating lack of achievements.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I'm studying engineering, so i'll take smarts, we all know that anyone in this field ends up bald by some mystical force anyways

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Why am I forced to downgrade if it's a genie wish?

[–] Anticorp 5 points 1 week ago

Sometimes it do be like that.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago (7 children)

I am the most intelligent person I know. So naturally I would choose intelligence, because christ do I need perspective if that's what I actually believe

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)

If I'm very smart, I could just use my intelligence to make money and then get beauty surgery.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 week ago

That's not how any of that works.

[–] P00ptart 8 points 1 week ago

Being smart has only gotten me anxiety. I'll go with attractiveness.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago (5 children)

... I visit my therapist weekly to cope with my ongoing god complex?

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

Appreciate the offer but no thanks.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Intelligence, easier to figure out how to improve my attractiveness and deal with complex problems in general than trying to get smarter.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago

i'm already dumb and cute, take a hike genie

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Probably smart, because I'm already pretty smart and the prospect of giving up what I already have seems scary.

Plus, I've lived most of my life thinking I was repulsively ugly; part of overcoming that anxiety involved understanding that "you can be the juiciest, ripest peach in the world, but some people just don't like peaches". If there's anything I've learned from that, it's understanding that attractiveness is even harder to "objectively" quantify than intelligence

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

If I'm that smart maybe I can work out how to make myself beautiful too.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Long Covid and Myalgic Encephalomyelitis have noticeably lowered my IQ. It's a terrible feeling to be more stupid and know that I normally could do better.

So give me intelligence every day. Physical attractiveness can only go so far.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago

Attractive, it's wild how people are more likely to help you in either small or greater acts or be willing to overlook some of your flaws.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (4 children)

You could be Hermann Rorschach or Hedy Lamarr, and be both!

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago

I think I'd rather be smart. I'm honestly often so impressed with beautiful people, because that shit takes work.

I can roll out of bed, pull my three week old sauce stained shirt over my gut, and go do smart shit with a terrible haircut and no one gives a fuck.

Beautiful people will have chosen matching outfits worth thousands, spent an hour on hair and makeup, all after a morning gym session, and they'll keep that hair perfect all day, getting their spa session in and finding time to do their nails.

How do they even have time to cook a healthy well balanced meal?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago

I am already both, so I would tell that genie to EAT ITTTT

[–] 2ugly2live 5 points 1 week ago

Smart. Pretty, dumb people get taken advantage of. Besides, I'm already unattractive, might as well give me something after making me go through high school πŸ˜’

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Smart... Looks good away but intelligence is forever.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago

How about slightly below both but with some solid executive functioning and 0 mood disorders? I'll take that.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Honestly, according to IQ tests, I'm already in the 95th+ percentile for intelligence. I'm also on the autism spectrum, and just got diagnosed with severe ADHD late last year. I've accomplished fuck-all by being smart, and it's mostly made me depressed. I'd pick being slightly dumb, but hot.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Being both already I would tell said genie to take a hike.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago

Beauty I guess, intelligence doesn't make a damn unless you're brave, lucky, or born well

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago (3 children)

What is the definition of 'beautiful', here? Do I get to decide, or is it up to the genie's interpretation?

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[–] Modern_medicine_isnt 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Beautiful. I've tried smart, it sucks.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

It's lonely being intelligent. Maybe I'm just in the wrong social circles.

I like to read books at my construction job when we're not busy. Yet none of my coworkers have read a book since early middle school, and they only skimmed it to half-ass a book report. I can't talk to them about anything except work.

I've never been beautiful my whole life. I'd give myself a 4 out of 10, a little less than average. I never really cared about my looks, I haven't worn makeup in ages.

I'd be interested in giving beauty a trial run, see if it suits me better than intelligence.

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[–] wildcardology 4 points 1 week ago

I'm an introvert so I'm going for very intelligent.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago

Ignorance is bliss.

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