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I’m sitting in the hospital room I’ve been in since Tuesday and can’t even begin to explain how bored I am. Let’s chat about anything except politics, I could use some distraction.

I collect hobbies and may even know something about your hobbies. What do you like to do?

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Hope you're doing better now! Sounds like no fun. I'll send good vibes your way! 🙏

I enjoy gardening, cleaning/tidying things up, vacuuming, basically making everything look neat and fresh! My parents fondly remember that when I was little, I would randomly clean the bathroom and they would always remark how they knew I'd cleaned it because they could see the reflection of their faces on the tiles. I write from time to time, mostly short stories that would fall under the definition of creepypastas or horror short stories.

I also love drawing, here's some of my work! No AI is used in my process, and you can look at the progress pictures I've uploaded to get a gist of my technique!

I've used Paint Tool SAI 1 for as long as I've been drawing digitally, and I honestly wouldn't settle for anything else! It's very lightweight and also old, but it's a very good app for drawing.

[–] WhatsHerBucket 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Doing better, thanks, not out of the woods yet.

Your art is pretty amazing!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

Glad to hear! Take it easy and be sure to rest up as much as you can! Also thank you so much! I'm glad you like it!

[–] Today 15 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (4 children)

Does your hospital room have one of those 0-10 pain scales? I hate those!! I'm so bad at them! I need something more objective so now i use 4 wakes you up and 7 makes you teary/cry. For 10 they say 'worst pain imaginable' so i always think it's like my arm was ripped off and I'm in a car fire with shards of glass. Nothing has ever been a 10.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 6 days ago (3 children)

I have experience some of what I'm told is the worst pain possible. Kidney stones, migraines that hit like cluster headaches. I wouldn't rate any of them a 10 because I'm always like... I could definitely feel more pain. Kidney stones are unmanageable pain, but it's not sheer agony shrieking through every nerve constantly.

Like you could rip off my arm and that would fucking hurt unimaginably, but then you could always pour salt on it after.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

Basically you don't rate pain at 9 or 10. At that point you are unintelligible and someone rates it for you.

[–] jordanlund 4 points 6 days ago

I rated it at 9 once, "Wanna know the difference between 9 and 10? I can still control the swearing at 9!"

[–] jordanlund 5 points 6 days ago

I had a kidney stone get stuck and infected, the pain was so severe I vomited in the doctors office. "OK, surgery at 5, 5 work for you?"

[–] WhatsHerBucket 4 points 6 days ago

I get debilitating migraines also, so I can relate.

I’ve heard stories about kidney stones and it sounds absolutely horrible.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 6 days ago (2 children)

This one may be more to your liking.

[–] Today 6 points 6 days ago

Bear or ninjas! 🤣🤣

[–] jordanlund 5 points 6 days ago
[–] PugJesus 8 points 6 days ago

Shattered my thigh once. Didn't hurt too much. Until they moved me. That's my 10 now.

Nothing else has gone above a 7 since.

[–] WhatsHerBucket 8 points 6 days ago

It does! It’s especially difficult when they wake you up at 2am to ask.

That is a really good system, it’s going into effect immediately :)

[–] [email protected] 10 points 6 days ago (2 children)

I'm a newbie in photography. Just got a second hand Fujifilm X-S10 and Sigma 18-50 lens a few weeks ago, making time to go out and explore new places is now the harder part haha.

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[–] kaitco 9 points 6 days ago (10 children)

I’m sitting in the airport lounge in Accra after spending a week here in Ghana.

I’ve taken so many pictures and I think this has been a life-changing journey. Before this, I used to write daily, but whether from aging or just fading desires, I’d all but stopped writing anything in the last few years. This trip has renewed my fervor for writing again, so I’m just excited to pursue my lifelong hobby writing just because I can once again.

If you’ve got nothing else better to do, I made some daily posts in an old-fashioned blog I’ve kept for a while: https://kaitco.wordpress.com/ (Maybe skip the post where I wallow in depression from Tuesday… 😅).

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (7 children)

I've been really interested in pre-colonial american history recently amongst other ancient societies. I even wrote an essay recently on the origins and meaning of the cave motif in Olmec altar thrones. In short, I believe it materially comes from the fact that the Olmecs had only relatively recently left cave dwellings and temporary housings to form the first cities in the Americas. However it also served the purpose of legitimizing the power of the Olmec rulers as caves were very religiously significant. Other mesoamerican mythologies viewed caves as a place that is close to Xibalba, the Mayan form of underworld. Xibalba was viewed as a place like earth that resided within the primordial sea through which the middle world (viewed as a creature drifting in the primordial sea) floats. Xibalba was full of people and creatures which could be communicated with and even bargained with. The shaman-rulers of Olmec society would likely consume hallucinogens and/or deliriants like Datura and then either enter or sit at the entrance of the cave to communicate with Xibalba. Knowing the effects of Datura and plants like it, this had to have been an incredibly unpleasant and probably terrifying experience. I am doubtless that the feat was considered brave. Anywho, the Olmec rulers would have a cave carved at the front and center of their throne, often with someone standing in front of it or exiting it. Fun fact: Sometimes, likely after or slightly before the death of that ruler, their throne would be turned on its side so that it is vertical and carved into what may be the face of that ruler. You can still see the scar of the cave carving on the side of the head for some of them. Here's some pictures!

pics

I also love the Incans but I know less about them. Their textiles are wonderful though.

pics

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[–] mr_stank 8 points 6 days ago (2 children)

Out of interest, how does one "collect hobbies"? What does that involve/look like?

[–] WhatsHerBucket 8 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Basically, I get into a hobby and I do it until it is all encompassing. Then right about the time I get to where you really have to grind to the next level, I lose interest.

[–] mr_stank 4 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Cool. If you would, can you give an example?

[–] WhatsHerBucket 4 points 6 days ago (5 children)

Geocaching is one and Ingress another.

I was a hardcore geocacher for about 3 years until I realized I just wasn’t into it anymore. I played Ingress for a few years as well and just kinda burned out.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (2 children)

My wife got me a drone for an early Christmas present. Been flying it and I'm scared it'll kick off another string of expensive hobbies. Also why the hell is DJI so ahead of other drone manufacturers. So if the US bans DJI, I'd have to build my own or pay more for less.

I bought my parents iPhone 16 pros since their phones are getting old (not really they have Pixel 6s). They're Asian so even though I put them on pixels, they clearly want iPhones. Hope this will get them through for 5+ years. But I know if I don't upgrade them, I'll never hear the end of, my phone is slow, my phone is hot, my phone can't take good photos.

My mom takes so many photos on her phone and always complains about the pixel phone, however IMHO pixels take better photos than iPhones. So either she'll complain or she'll complain. She's rarely super happy about anything. But since she got what she wants, she can deal with the consequences.

Sorry for a little bit of trauma dumping lmao

Shameless plug

https://pixelfed.social/i/web/profile/593007045638062285

I also have an Instagram (but I've stopped posting there so I can be more active in the fediverse)

https://www.instagram.com/wu.nef/

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 days ago (2 children)

I also have a bunch of hobbies. D&D (well, roleplaying in general, mainly Pathfinder 2e these days); video games, primarily the Age of Empires franchise and survival crafters like Raft, DST, and Factorio; triathlon, as well as running and cycling as separate sports; photography; and music (I play piano, clarinet, and saxophone).

But perhaps the most unusual/unorthodox of my hobbies is fencing. I did sport fencing back in high school, but these days it's HEMA. Historical fencing based on texts & treatises written during the historical periods. Using weapons that are more familiar historically accurate than the weapons you see in modern fencing. But with modern protective equipment for safety. I do mainly rapier in the Spanish and French styles, as well as some sabre.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 days ago (2 children)
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[–] WhatsHerBucket 3 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Wow, it seems we have a lot of hobbies in common! That is, along with the rest of my family lol.

I played D&D for a long time, eventually my (now adult) son got into it also and still plays. My choice of games is Civilization 4 these days.

My SO does triathlons, at least she did before all the health issues. I ran in the military and have come to find I loathe running. So I just tag along for moral support.

I’ve just recently started getting into photography a little more, and I love music. I used to play the sax as well (baritone), but it’s been a long time.

Fencing is great and such a workout! My whole family has done fencing at some point and my kid was in a team in college.

We also surf :)

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Oh damn, nice! I basically skipped Civ 4 just by chance. Huge amount of Civ 2: Test of Time when I was younger, touched on Civ 3 for a little while, and then Civ 5 is my 7th most-played game in Steam.

I was on alto. Definitely miss playing in big band.

[–] WhatsHerBucket 2 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Civ 4 will always be my fav. Did you see Civ 7 comes out in a few months? I can’t wait to try it!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I did see that it's coming out soon! The different ages thing seems like a really neat idea.

But tbh I don't play it a whole lot recently anyway. Never played 6, and haven't even played 5 since around when 6 came out

[–] WhatsHerBucket 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

5 and 6 both sucked, which is why I still play 4. You aren’t missing anything.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 16 hours ago

Oh, I really liked 5. The switch to hexes and the removal of death stacks were pretty huge changes, but also excellent for the game. I'm a bit sick of Firaxis' tendency to release fundamentally unfinished games that only get completed once DLC have come out, though.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 days ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 days ago (6 children)

I literally just this week picked up a kit for carving 印章 (those Chinese seal stamps) and carved my first one last night.

I botched it.

Thankfully it's really easy to erase and start over. 🤣

[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 days ago

That's awesome. Sounds like a fun thing to do

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