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What happened to all the baddies you knew growing up? (lemm.ee)

submitted 8 months ago by [email protected] to c/asklemmy

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I don't know if this is something people say in other countries, but in my country, there's this common cliché or "wisdom" where adults will assure you that the people who picked on you in environments like school will universally develop lives of hardship later on, one way or another getting into mayhem.

I asked my mother one day what happened to all those people growing up. I can sense she may have been sugar coating it, but she said something along the lines of "well, I waited, and waited, and waited, and waited, and waited, and became a teacher, and waited some more, and finally watched as my bullies had to go into retirement five years late, yay" (okay, not really like that, but it might as well have been).

Yeah, common theme in my experience that what we hope for is never "that" set in stone. No matter where in the community (or even long-distance communicating) you knew them from, based on life, how much approximate correspondence do you associate with that mindset in the first paragraph?

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 8 months ago (1 children)

He tried to jump from one Jeep to another while offroading at speed, missed, hit his head on a rock, and died. The driver did time because of his actions. He was a massive piece of shit, even years after high school. I feel sorry for his family.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Was he drunk or high? As much as I feel bad for those who make awful mistakes, why would anyone do that?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (1 children)

He wasn't to the best of anyone's knowledge, but the driver was drunk. He was as dumb as a box of hair. He was into (American) football since he was a young kid and, knowing what we know about concussive brain injuries, I suspect he was suffering from brain damage.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago

They say people with brain injury are advised against getting drunk in general. Which means I wouldn't put it past him based on those details.