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Is your Significant Other unattractive, not too smart, or have some other "limitation"? If so, why did you decide to stay with them? (kbin.social)

submitted 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) by [email protected] to c/asklemmy

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I'm the dumb one but I make her laugh.

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

My wife has gained roughly 60 kg since I meet her many years ago, which some might see as that kind of limitation, but you know, I don't even see that when I look at her. She is smart as fuck, a great engineer, a wonderful mother, and just overall the better half of me. It's just so easy to love her, and I would never even consider leaving her for looks. We all have our imperfections, but that's not to say we're not worthy of love. Oh yeah, I'm a terrible smart ass, overweight, impatient, not a great father, and I don't communicate very well. Beats me what she sees in me.