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How would you put into words what gender means to you apart from societal gender roles and expectations? (self.asklemmy)

submitted 9 months ago by polysexualstick to c/asklemmy

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I know that it has significant meaning to me but I struggle putting it into words to explain it to other people (especially other dya cis people). So like a few years ago I was thinking about if I may be trans femme. I have since realised that no, actually I was just struggling with it for a while because I don't relate to the gender roles and expectations society puts on men. I now identify more strongly with being a man than ever before, and I love being a man in a gender-way. I just absolutely hate being a man in a "what role men have in society"-way.

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[–] Jackthelad 1 points 9 months ago (3 children)

Well, I just went to reply to someone's comment on mine and found that my comment no longer exists.

Why was it removed?

[–] polysexualstick 4 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (2 children)

Could be because I reported it for being discriminating towards non-binary people because you negated their existence.

[–] Jackthelad 2 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

Well done on completely missing the point of what I said.

[–] Cryophilia 1 points 9 months ago

I'd like to humbly request you not do that. I like to see the comments of bigots, so I can vote them down and/or mock them.

But also, sometimes comments are misunderstood or have a good point among the bullshit. I feel like we should err on the side of leaving rather than censoring.

It's your post so it's your call, just giving my $0.02.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago

Mod log is public, you should always be able to check

[–] [email protected] -2 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (1 children)

Lemmy, just as censoring as Reddit if not even worse. Yay.

[–] Bluetreefrog -1 points 9 months ago (1 children)

If you want an uncensored instance/community, then don't just whinge about it, set one up.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago

Then defederation will come