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[–] Cyberflunk 23 points 1 year ago (2 children)

50 years old, had a single best friend for nearly 38 years. My only continuous friend throughout my life.

I got together with a girl from our mutual past, and found out he groomed and molested her for years.

Confronted him about it and he turned into a completely different person. Absolutely destroyed our decades-long friendship.

I have a few friends, but no one I could call with a real problem.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

Wtf! Thats sad af. Human beings are the worst

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

That sucks. I had a good, long time friend (M) who married another friend of mine (F). Their marriage was short lived. When I found out he had been abusing her, I cut ties with him. Haven't talked to him since and don't plan to. I hope he gets his life together but to me he's just a shit bag who beat his wife. I refuse to be friends with people who treat others like that.