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[–] [email protected] 19 points 8 months ago (1 children)

"Are you traumatized in any way? No? Think again! Did I do anything traumatizing? Tell me, I'm willing to admit and learn from my mistakes. So tell me, what did I do that traumatized you and don't look at me like that! I'm really trying to help you!"

[–] [email protected] 34 points 8 months ago (3 children)

Meanwhile my parents don't remember any of their abuse and say I'm imagining stuff.

[–] ickplant 23 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (1 children)

Literally what every one of my clients with childhood trauma says. I'm a therapist. I can think of one exception where the parents kind of listened and tried to atone, but that's it.

[–] Speculater 13 points 8 months ago (1 children)

My step mom beat the shit out of us and says all five of us, two of her own children, are making it up. Needless to say, no contact going on 7 years.

[–] ickplant 9 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I'm sorry that happened to you. That's exactly the kind of denial I hear about, and then these (step) parents wonder why there is no contact...

[–] Speculater 3 points 8 months ago

Thank you. To be honest, I was willing to have a relationship with her, if she admitted to harming us, but she wouldn't and I chose to move on.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 8 months ago (1 children)

In my country, there's a saying, "The one who hurts forgets, the one hurt remember."

[–] [email protected] 7 points 8 months ago

The axe forgets, the tree remembers.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 8 months ago