I dressed up as a girl once for Halloween. I am a CIS dude and it was a very illuminating experience. The worst part of it was I must have awakened something in one of the people at the party because that dude would not leave me alone.

Drunk dudes that won't leave you alone and start crossing the line? I will never forget.

No means No dammit.

[–] [email protected] 33 points 1 year ago

People kept pinching my butt and bra.

I was dressed as Tina from Bob's Burgers as part of a group costume. I was groped multiple times. Very disturbing.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 year ago

I wore a black kilt to a club once with my friends. One guy was very interested and put his hand on my leg which I did NOT consent to or appreciate. A skirt isn't an invitation.

I didn't even look good, I guess he just liked knees.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago

As a quite thin guy, I dressed as women for a game once and got several inappropriate comments and people coming too close.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

I was probably that one dude

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You've never had "drunk woman that won't leave you alone and starts crossing the line"? That shit is aggravating whoever is involved.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

I have had that experience, sure. But it didn't cross the line because if I said no and left the room it was over.