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Or, alternatively, what did you do to another person which got you blacklisted from their life?

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[–] [email protected] 60 points 1 year ago (1 children)

My dad broke up with his girlfriend, and was telling me this plan about fucking with her disability benefits, because she had gone for plastic surgery or some shit. He found this out from stalking her call logs.

I remember just pacing back and forward in my apartment trying to reason with him on the phone. "Dad, you can't do this kind of stuff.."

I talked him down, told him I loved him, and will always love him.

I don't know if it was the next day, but the next time we spoke on the phone he went right back into the same mindset. I couldn't handle it. Sometime after the call I sent a pretty harsh message that I didn't want to be involved with him. Haven't spoken to him since.

[–] average650 19 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It's hard when you care about someone but they just hurt everyone around them.

[–] FReddit 7 points 1 year ago

Some people are kryptonite.