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You got your answer, I guess.
I guess. I don't get it. If I refused to talk to anyone if they ever downvoted me, I would run out of people to talk pretty quickly.
To me, a downvote means "what you wrote contributes nothing to the discussion, and should be less visible". If someone downvotes me, I take it as a sign that no further discussion in that direction is meaningful.
I completely agree, you've summed up my view far better than I could.
There's also a controversial approach that if you're debating with someone and you believe in the points you're making then you should upvote even the comments you disagree.
By doing so the full thread of comments is ranked higher so more people see the incredibly clever points you're articulating.
This isn't so relevant on Lemmy right now because it's still small so you might read all comments on ba post. But it made a massive difference on reddit where there were thousands of comments. So the algorithm becomes very selective.
This sums it up exactly!
You aren't just downvoting comments you disagree with, you're downvoting comments because you don't understand them.
By downvoting instead of commenting you never open that discussion to learn about somebody's view.
And by downvoting you're reducing the chance that somebody else might see the comment. Who either does understand it, or responds to continue the discussion.
What?
To go with the theme of this thread, I have no interest in debating why I downvoted you, nor if downvotes should be used for any reason. What I didn't get is why you would (or not I guess since you replied) disengage with someone that downvoted you.
My actual question that you can't seem to answer was: now that you know I downvoted your comment (the information you've been advocating for), now what? What are you going to do with that information now that you have it? Why is it so important to you to have it?