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[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Do you realize that the exemple you give is the same principle as you criticize?

It sends my dysphoria through the roof every time.

But even I can manage not to get bent out of shape [...]

You are sure about that? Dysphoria is a pretty big deal.

Seems to me you still internalize the generalization made about people in your situation and it does affect you. Same as my examples.

I can make the difference between women calling "all men" and myself as a person, and that wasn't my point.

If everywhere you look, there is someone or something telling you that you are a bad person because of something you can't control, you can be as stoic as you want, it will affect you negatively. It's not a matter of if, but when.

And it seems to me that you don't understand that my response was directly to your response to OP, not the #AllMen debate.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Did... Did you just try to imply that my dysphoria is from me internalizing women saying men bad?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

I did not say that. You are clearly arguing in bad faith just to make your point.

This conversation is going nowhere and I won't spend more energy on it.