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Not the most manipulative but
Keep a log of the birthdays, hobbies and names of spouses and children of colleagues, managers, team members and customers.
I learnt this from a guy who did executive search. People remember you, when you remember what is important to them.
When I've lead teams it's one of the first things I find out - note down when someone says "yeah Gary that's my hubby, he's super into gaming"
When you're a manager, your teams families, partners and friends know your name. Reciprocating that - learning who is important to them - is really important.
Has this ever backfired on you? While your motive is wholesome, I could see the practice itself seeming creepy. Like keeping notes of someone else's life.
Yep. There's people that want to keep distance at work and don't appreciate it. Just have to respect that and leave them to it.
Some people just don't like to have their hobbies shared.