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[–] PugJesus 17 points 6 months ago (1 children)

People tend to gravitate towards the interests of groups they identify with, consciously or unconsciously. In a society where dance is seen as 'feminine', people who identify, consciously or unconsciously, with a female identity are more likely to gravitate towards it.

This doesn't mean that men can't enjoy dance, and it doesn't mean that joining a dance class means you have to hand in your man card. It doesn't even mean that dance is inherently feminine instead of dance being feminine being a modern social construct. It's just a common kind of anecdote from trans folk - an attraction to hobbies, styles, or groups associated with their gender identity rather than their AGAB even before transitioning.

[–] Roflmasterbigpimp 6 points 6 months ago (1 children)

How can you keep so calm when someone comes to 196 of all Places to complain about this community being too queer? Respect for that.

[–] PugJesus 8 points 6 months ago

I generally have one calm response in me before blowing my top. It helps, sometimes. Occasionally. Once in a blue moon.