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Do you avoid discussing some topics online even if you have something you'd like to say about them? (sopuli.xyz)

submitted 5 months ago by [email protected] to c/asklemmy

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I've been doing this for some time now. Even if it's something that I consider important.

I just don't see the value in participating in a discussion that I have seen countless times already where the same points and arguments happen over and over again. One that I know wilI turn ugly. It's exhausting and I've decided to just opt-out.

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[–] weeeeum 5 points 5 months ago (2 children)

I do it because I don't really mind a shit show, but I 100% understand those who want to remain out of it. Lemmy is insanely toxic at times and it's sometimes made me reconsider this platform.

[–] MudSkipperKisser 3 points 5 months ago

One of the things I used to love about Reddit (obviously pre-enshitification) was the openness and willingness within the community to listen to other perspectives and the calm and intelligent discussion of ideas. That became less and less and I miss it. Lemmy gets that herd mentality and if you don’t 100% agree on all points with certain ideas here then you’re just wrong and downvoted away. So I just choose not to engage

[–] kaffiene 2 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I don't think it's the platform so much, I think there's an inevitability about communication quality dropping as audience size increases

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I don't know, there are a lot of nut jobs around here ...

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago

I think Lemmy has large communities of people who are here because...

They're tech/FLOSS enthusiasts
Reddit's API issues drove them away
They got banned from Reddit

I think that third group is what tends to cause those issues, lol