GrymEdm

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[–] GrymEdm 9 points 3 days ago (2 children)
[–] GrymEdm 27 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (10 children)

I really don't like the various outlets' coverage of this story or how quick people are to interpret this as a violent threat. I am VERY skeptical that he meant physically hitting Michelle Obama, and I think the only way to make it sound that way is to clip the quote. When he says, "She hit me the other day" and "She said that about me, I can’t hit back?" he's obviously not talking physically and you wouldn't think that if it was Harris saying it.

TONS of legitimate exist reasons to hate Trump and tear him apart (Huffpost: "This just in, user GrymEdm threatens to 'tear Trump apart'. Is he advocating assault?"). We don't need to grasp at straws when there are rock-solid criticisms of Trump. If it's not right for the other side to take things out of context and spin them, then it's not ok for us. How about we stay focused on Trump being a democracy-destroying, racist, lying convicted felon/sex offender (with ample proof) and not try to force this quote into something it probably isn't.

Edit: People comparing the J6 coup/maintaining deniability need to look up how serious and extended the lead up to J6 was. It was many days worth of violent rhetoric capped by a long speech where he said "peaceful" once and called for variations of "fighting" 20 times. His J6 incitement is the basis of a very serious and (according to experts in the linked article) indefensible lawsuit. No one is taking him to court because of the quotes in OP's article. Lemmy, you don't need to push this to make reasons to justifiably despise him.

[–] GrymEdm 4 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)
  • If you're the owner of the home, know what bylaws there are regarding snow removal near your home. Where I live you can get a fine + snow removal costs if you aren't reasonably prompt getting snow off the sidewalk.

  • Snowy surfaces (sidewalks, driveways, roads) are often icy surfaces = slip and fall hazard. This is especially serious for older folks but it can hurt/injure at any age. This gets worse if it snows then melts then refreezes. Don't run if you don't have to. Sand/grit on these surfaces can help, and in my area you can get sand for free at certain town facilities.

  • Frostbite on exposed skin is a genuine hazard. Look up the weather forecast when it's cold and take time-to-frostbite warnings seriously.
[–] GrymEdm 14 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

Here's an article on the history of anti-vaccination movements with sources.

  • "The Leicester Demonstration March of 1885 was one of the most notorious anti-vaccination demonstrations. There, 80,000-100,000 anti-vaccinators led an elaborate march, complete with banners, a child’s coffin, and an effigy of Jenner."

  • "...surveys of medical providers in the UK in the late 1970s found they were reluctant to recommend the immunization to all patients."

  • "Although the time periods have changed, the emotions and deep-rooted beliefs—whether philosophical, political, or spiritual—that underlie vaccine opposition have remained relatively consistent since Edward Jenner introduced vaccination."
[–] GrymEdm 49 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (5 children)

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[–] GrymEdm 5 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (2 children)

I'd find it odd if I enjoyed the same things as much now as I did when I was say, 6-12 years old. Games and shows for kids are meant for a child-like mind. You can still appreciate them for what they are - I've watched Lazy Town with my nieces and enjoyed the quality of the music and Stefán Karl Stefánsson as Robbie Rotten. But I'm not sitting down to watch it on my own.

Plus game design and definitely graphics can improve over time. E.g. I loved Golden Eye on N64 as a kid, but if I replayed it I think nostalgia would be doing a lot of heavy lifting. I replayed FF7 Classic a year or two ago and did not find it nearly as compelling as I did when I was 16. It was still alright, but it didn't amaze me the way it did in PS1 days.

[–] GrymEdm 73 points 6 days ago (2 children)

"It’s easy for her to talk, sitting far from where the death scenes take place, but put a gun in her hand, and let her go fight, and she’ll say, ‘No thanks!’” This from a guy who discusses deploying troops in America against Americans, yet dodged the Vietnam draft with fake medical issues.

[–] GrymEdm 1 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

I think they are political theatre bills to prop up hard-right support ahead of Smith's leadership review. My guess about the UCP attitude is: if they pass great. If they are stopped at any point in the process, oh well they'll have served their purpose as a (twisted, hateful) virtue signal.

[–] GrymEdm 9 points 6 days ago (1 children)

What's a can opener? Kind of NSFW - like not really, but if someone walks in on you watching you'll have some explaining to do.

[–] GrymEdm 43 points 6 days ago

If you want to stop support for Israel's war crimes, Kamala is slightly better than Trump. If you want support for Ukraine to oppose Russia, she's much better. If your issue is the environment/global warming, she's immeasurably better. If you're concerned with things like democracy and rule of law at all levels of government, then she's literally the only choice.

[–] GrymEdm 5 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

I was writing something like "I understand but here's why it has to be this way", but then I read comments about not wanting to take the high road and how being nice gets you nowhere. So instead: when I was a young adult in the 2000's, angrily telling someone to "go f themselves" face-to-face might get you punched in the mouth. Someone who started swearing at everyone whenever they were angry was labelled an asshole. It's not like I spent those years in a weak, no-confrontation, "let's hug instead" environment either - my friends and I just didn't put up with regular disrespect. I'll stop there because I don't want to glorify violence - there are better ways to deal with insults and we didn't fight often. Most of the time jackasses just didn't get invited anymore.

My point: online, anonymous communication removed a lot of social and physical consequences of confrontation, but that doesn't make being nasty alright. You may say, "It's just a f you", but your comments make me think that being nasty is the intent. Not trying to shame you but if I'm right about hurting others being the goal then: yeah, admittedly that's not rare anymore but you can do better.

Also you say being nice doesn't get you anywhere. I'd ask: when was the last time you told someone to f themselves and they were like, "Oh, I never considered that. You've won me over." Trading insults online leaves everyone angry and encourages inventive cruelty so the other person is hurt more. Anger is natural - we all feel it and I need to self-censor all the damn time. But there are better ways to deal with being angry, and even to reduce the amount of time you spend angry.

[–] GrymEdm 68 points 6 days ago (5 children)

Wouldn't it be nice to be the little spoon once in a while?

 
 
 
 

Even better if the foe was already almost dead. When you slap something for huge numbers it's also fun having the DM describe the wreckage that's left of your opponents.

I feel like some Table Top games are more prone to this than others, just based off watching some different IP's being played.

 

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.world/post/15286301

"A group of Republican lawmakers introduced a bill on Wednesday which would send “any person convicted of unlawful activity” at a college or university, to do community service in Gaza for six months."

"Strangely, the bill appears to refer to any “unlawful activity on the campus of an institution of higher education beginning on and after October 7, 2023” but does not specifically mention the ongoing student protests, rendering it stupidly broad."

"Ogles spoke with Fox News about the bill, saying that, “If you support a terrorist organization, and you participate in unlawful activity on campuses, you should get a taste of your own medicine. I am going to bet that these pro-Hamas supporters wouldn’t last a day, but let’s give them the opportunity.”

 

Regulations be damned. This is coffee you're hiding from me!

 

I didn't change Picard's face because I love the original too much. You can almost see his soul leaving his body.

 
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The DM's pitch was to roll characters that were the local problem-solvers. Level 5, been adventuring in the same rural area for years, handled bandits/goblins/unruly wildlife. It was an opportunity to play odd/misfit characters for a while if we wanted to.

What we didn't know at the time was that our merry band of Goonies were meant to die to amp up the emotional investment for the rest of the campaign. Tragedy in the 1st act, then the movie starts for real. It's one thing to hear about the Big Bad hurting people, it's another to care because you lost a party to them.

So the 1st party played for 2 sessions, made it to the boss fight, and started dropping. The wizard realized he wasn't killing the Big Bad by himself so he fled, left the rural area for the local city, and explained what happened at the adventurer's guild/tavern. Of course the players, whose characters had just died, signed up for revenge this time with "professional" properly built characters.

Returning with proper characters and the wizard sharing knowledge of traps, layout, tactics etc. we barely managed to win. The DM let the Big Bad (who was never supposed to die) be killed but he talked about "his master's revenge" - the DM simply moved his plans for a villain "one step up". It was still a hard fight - two died and I retired the character I had re-rolled saying it was injury. The wizard went on to be the grizzled sole survivor for the rest of the campaign and it was kind of a cool backstory for that player to work with.

 
 

Full list here.

Sorry about the potato quality. Higher res = pay for subscription and I don't want to. I offer up a small bonus pic as penance.

 
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