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Interested in seeing how other people approach their backlog. I’ve finally made a list of all the games I want to finish, and I’m forcing myself to play one of them a day for at least an hour.

As an added incentive, I’m forcing myself to wait to finish a backlog game before I can buy a new one. I’ve got a lot of playing to do between now and October.

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[–] [email protected] 29 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

I clear my mind of the concept of a backlog, and embrace the idea that games are for my entertainment - thus if I am not currently feeling entertained, I can put the game down and not play it without guilt.

TL:DR; There is no backlog.

[–] Jikiya 2 points 1 year ago
[–] PeanutJelly 13 points 1 year ago

Simple, I don't. I play whatever I feel like playing, sometimes I stick with it, sometimes I start again after a year and well sometimes, I never touch that game again.

I don't have a backlog, I have a collection.

[–] brawleryukon 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Gave up on that a long time ago 🤣

These days I mostly just have a nebulous list in the back of my mind of what games I want to get to and when I finish one (which, the Steam Deck has been a huge help with focusing down one game at a time), I move along to the next.

Also, I started cataloging what I've played on Grouvee, which is as close as I was able to find to Goodreads for games. Helps to be able to go back and look over what I've "accomplished" in the list of completed games.

[–] theAndrewJeff 2 points 1 year ago

Ooo, I’m gonna have to check that you!

[–] _MoveSwiftly 6 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I install all the games I have purchased but did not play. If I run out of storage, that absolutely means I shouldn't purchase new games.

Luckily that hasn't been the issue. Ever since doing this I've gone through my backlog and played a lot of games I had, and I'm close to being done. This summer sale will be my first time in a while to purchase a lot of games.

[–] Soulyezer 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

On top of this I add that I won’t uninstall something unless I finished it

[–] _MoveSwiftly 1 points 1 year ago
[–] theAndrewJeff 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

See, my hard drive footprint weighs heavily on my mind, so I think this would stress me out haha

[–] _MoveSwiftly 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What's a hard drive footprint?

It's supposed to be on your mind. You shouldn't have more games than you can possibly play within a year. :)

[–] theAndrewJeff 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Just how much general space I have available on my hard drive.

[–] _MoveSwiftly 1 points 1 year ago

How large is your HDD?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

I keep track of the games I own on Backloggery.

I know others are saying that having a backlog means treating gaming like a job you need to do.

But for me, it's about reminding myself that I don't always need to buy interesting games just because they are on sale or because I think I want to play them in the future.

There was period of time years back when I was buying dozens of games each year and not even playing half of them. Even if I'm buying games on sale that was hundreds of dollars a year I was spending on stuff I wasn't using.

I only have a limited time these days to play games, so I have even more of a reason to check my purchases. And sometimes I'll check my backlog and notice a game that I actually do want to play (or even play again).

[–] Z_ford_prefect 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I don't....

The backlog is too strong, and I don't have the time

[–] WillfulBedder 4 points 1 year ago

Seconded. I used to really think about it a lot. For me now, if I want to play it I'll eventually get around to it or make time. If I don't / can't its not the end of the world.

[–] nogooduser 2 points 1 year ago

I handle it by dropping things off the backlog if they are too old.

I rarely buy games since PS+ Extra so I’m not buying games to never play them. If I do buy a game it goes right to the top of the list of games to play because I obviously really wanted it.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

By not having a backlog in the first place.

I do have thousands of games on my library, but it's a library. I only pick up the game I'm having an exact itch for, and I put them on hold until I get the itch again, exactly like I do with music albums.

No pressure, no rushing. I can recommend every single game from my library from firsthand experience because I've enjoyed every single second of my time playing them.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I have a few that I haven't played but own, for other reasons - but beyond that, dealing with the library really is far less daunting when the relationship with it isn't one of obligation.

[–] Skellybones 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It's better to play a game you want then to think you need to play the game.

The game isn't gone it just has to wait. Also don't buy new games if you aren't going to play them or play a hour and never return, that's just wasting money and time

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Yeah, I don't like the "backlog" mentality. It makes gaming sound like a list of chores, full of tedium and a sense of obligation. I buy games I know I'm going to want to play eventually, and I'll get to them when I get to them. My goal isn't to "clear my backlog" it's to have fun, play what feels right to play, and go at my own pace.

[–] toxicbubble 3 points 1 year ago

I recently finished two games I've had for years (God of War: Origins Collection, PS3). My process is to plan ahead, categorize my games by genre. When I'm in the mood for a genre, I'll narrow them down to one game/series & play as much as I can. when I'm bored, I'll move onto another genre, that way I'm not overwhelming myself with the same types of games. of course this means I have a lot of half-finished games as well. Try to finish games when you can before starting a new one. I often switch between long & short games to avoid monotony.

[–] Action_Bastid 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

If I spend more than 5 minutes trying to decide what to play, I use one of the Steam game pickers and just go with it.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I do this sometimes with TV shows. I have a library of things I know I want to watch at some point. I roll a die and watch what it tells me. Honestly, I've been pretty happy with the process.

[–] misterd1ck 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I just consider it a collection and not a backlog. Makes me feel a little better about all the $$ I’ve wasted.

[–] Alkider 1 points 1 year ago

Especially when a good chunk of them are remakes. I think I have a problem.

[–] Thadrax 3 points 1 year ago

I don't have a backlog, I have a lot of options what I might be playing next. There is no pressure to finish or even play any of them.

[–] colifloro 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I install only two games: one AAA or long one, and one indie/short one. I choose on of the two per day depending on my mood, but I won’t install any other one until I finish them. It worked well so far, and it also helped with the limited storage the deck has (yes, playing mostly on deck, but I guess it helps no matter the setup)

[–] theAndrewJeff 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What are you working through currently?

[–] colifloro 1 points 1 year ago

I came back to switch for TOTK (I'm an avid steam deck user that haven't touch the switch for months, but this is an special occasion), and Cult of the Lamb for any other day.

[–] eiger 2 points 1 year ago

I maintain a TODO list (with tags) on GoG Galaxy and a wishlist on Steam. Whenever I want to play something new, I scroll through the TODO list and usually find a few games that I feel like playing at that moment. I hit install on a few of them, and play whatever installs first. After an hour or two, I get a feeling about the game, and decide: finish or uninstall it and remove it from TODO, or just uninstall it for another time and leave it in TODO. I rarely finish a game and put it in favorites, which I often replay. I only buy things from wishlist, if that is really what I want to play or there is a big discount. I never pre-order and I never buy impulsively.

[–] freddy 2 points 1 year ago

I have around 200 games that I've accumulated over the 15+ years I've had my steam account. Most of them came from summer sales over the years and weren't played.

I bought a steamdeck a year ago and played more games since than I have in the decade prior. I think the convenience of the steamdeck + being able to play wherever I want is the biggest factor for me. I don't play AAA games, so it works great for me.

[–] Donjuanme 2 points 1 year ago

I don't even add all my humble bundle games any more.

Occasionally I'll see a humble bundle games that peaks my interest, only to find it already in my library.

I've really tried to stop purchasing anything, especially anything new, although it looks like AAA developers have caught onto this and are doing their best to keep "goty" versions as close in price to the original release price as possible. An excellent trick by them, release a game with a bunch of cut/"planned"content, sell 60% of the game at 100% price, then a year down the road sell the full game at 100% price, but look at the 40% extra content you get for your money!

[–] bungle_in_the_jungle 2 points 1 year ago

So far for this year it's looking like the answer is: I'm not.

Too many good games coming out this year!

[–] jerrimu 1 points 1 year ago

I delete the other games from my switch and go down to the free I wanna focus on

[–] Alkider 1 points 1 year ago

pick some games i feel like playing and roll some dice lol

[–] Siors 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I don't really have a strategy about it, I just think about what games I really feel in the mood for playing at that time and pick one. If I don't have any that come to mind then I'll browse through my shelf/list of games and see if any spark my interest.

The only kind of rule I put on myself is that I wont have more than two games on the go at the same time (aside from multiplayer games) otherwise I know I'll just end up getting distracted and not finishing any of them.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I’ve accepted the fact that sometimes It is ok to let a game unfinished. If I had enough with a game in my backlog and I don’t want to play it anymore, I stop and play a new one, the game is « done ». If I finish then the game was a really good one !
Careful with forcing yourself to play !

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

The only game in my backlog is the Final Fantasy VII Remake and my strategy for clearing my backlog is "when my kids are sufficiently independent". Right now that is not even a little bit a possibility.

[–] Canama 1 points 1 year ago

I used to have a list of games I wanted to play. It grew and grew and kept on growing. One day, I did some back-of-the-envelope math and realized that, at a game a week, just playing through everything currently on it would take about sixty years. I don't expect to be alive in sixty years.

So I deleted the whole list.

Some of the games on that list I still very much want to play; I'll get around to them when I feel like it or else not at all. Many of them I have forgotten--which only reveals that I didn't really care all that much about playing them to begin with.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Im pretty bad about not playing games for a while after I buy them, but the Steam Deck is helping me work through my catalog.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I don't worry about finishing a game, just about having fun. If I try a game and I don't have fun, I put it in the "Tried it" category and move on

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Another point of consideration, why do you want to finish all of these games?

Personally, I rarely finish games. So many times I'll play for 6-8 hours and just start to lose interest. At that point I quit the game, maybe to come back to it a few weeks, months, years later, but maybe not.

You have to remind yourself that games are 1) fun, 2) art, and 3) time wasters. The whole point of playing a video game is to waste time, so don't spend that time playing something that isn't fun.

But that's me and how I do it. Good luck!

[–] mekkagodzilla 1 points 1 year ago

I have a notion board with my games in 5 stages:

  • want to buy (I'm trying to be really conservative here)
  • need to finish (the backlog)
  • currently playing
  • completed
  • abandonned (games I will never complete for some reason)

But honestly these days I'm pretty down, and after spending 8 hours in front of a computer and 2 screens, I feel very little inclination to play games, and tend to read more and more.

[–] flux 1 points 1 year ago

I actually have a few strategies.

  1. I never ever buy a game without knowing that I will play it in the next 3-4 months. At least the first intro/level.

  2. When I see a new game in a series I won't play/buy it unless I've at least giving the game two generations a good amount of investment. Example: sniper elite 5 is out and I went back and played through 3. It scratched the itch for that game and I'm not considering buying 5 for a little more time.

  3. Same as two but with developer. If I really love developer. Like Supergiant and am going to play all their games. I won't start a new game until I've given sometime to the previous game if I own it. I played through Pyre before Hades and glad I did.

  4. If I see something new I usually just double check I don't have a "similar /type / style game" and give it little time just to make sure I'm not interested in playing it over the shinny new thing. I've been able to pull out some really good games just sorting by genre and giving it a shot.

I'll break these rules if

  • my friends are playing a game and I need to play with them before they get bored.
  • It receives all 10's everywhere. Like Elden Ring.

Ultimately it's your time. I have the theory that you you should try a lot of games you already own but if it's a struggle to get through. I'm not talking about the difficulty. Challenges can be fun and not a struggle. If it's mentally a struggle and you don't care about the reward or the ending of the story then stop playing it. If you aren't having fun or find some satisfaction after you play find another game.

[–] Lukeazade 1 points 1 year ago

I've found a lot of comfort recently in just accepting that it's okay to be playing a few of the gamers in my backlog at one time. Before I used to think growing my "currently playing" list too large was a mistake because I'd become overwhelmed or something. Now I've embrased just enjoying playing whatever I feel like in the moment.

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