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[–] MegaUltraChicken 41 points 1 year ago (2 children)

My favorite one is when our utility company asks me to donate to help pay for people's utilities like they aren't raking in record amount of cash.

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[–] [email protected] 37 points 1 year ago

First, please don't link to Reddit...

Many Of The Largest Charities In America Are Giant Money Making Scams
http://thetruthwins.com/archives/many-of-the-largest-charities-in-america-are-giant-money-making-scams

[–] [email protected] 27 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Or just...donate the perfectly good food they constantly throw out into the cadged dumpsters designed to keep homeless people out... Litteraly would cost them nothing...

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

"But if we feed them then those broke homeless people won't come in and spend their (nonexistent) money on our food!" -upper management

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[–] [email protected] 26 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Remember kids, they also get to use the money they guilted off of you to reduce their tax liability because they get credit for donating your money!

Edit: I'll be dammed looks like I was wrong. Here is an article on why you might not want to donate anyway. I stand corrected.

[–] mighty_alfredo 19 points 1 year ago (1 children)

They do not, at least in the US.

[–] axtualdave 13 points 1 year ago (2 children)

It depends on exactly what the store is doing.

If the store is representing the extra charge as a donation to a specific charity, generally, the customer can deduct that.

If it's far more vague, like, "Give $10 to help poor kids in Africa" the ultimate destination for the funds could be the company's own ledgers, which it would then use for its own charitable activities and collect the tax deduction, as long as they "help poor kids in Africa."

And some stores are just lying. CVS, for instance, was sued as part of a class action suit when, after the company pledges $10 million to the American Diabetes Association, then collected money from customers to fund that pledge.

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[–] Licensed_to_ill 25 points 1 year ago (13 children)

Those donations you make can help them deduct from taxes, right?

[–] HRDS_654 14 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Yes, which is why you should donate yourself if you are inclined to do so.

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[–] fsk 24 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Those charities have huge overhead. Very little money goes to the actual cause.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 year ago (1 children)

There are sites to check how much actually goes out. Check before you donate.

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[–] AltF4me 23 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

And redirecting you attention on to the "offsets" scam too.

Ever wonder why climate change is such a problem if 1.5 pence per liter petroleum burnt can undo the damage? Spoiler: it can't. You can't sequester CO² for that cheap, and CO² isn't the only issue. "Offsets" are not certified by any trustworthy third party, and companies intentionally don't pry too much, so they can say "Oh sorry, didn't know" if anyone investigates and discovers they did squat-all.

[–] darkknight 17 points 1 year ago

I hate when any company I'm buying something from does this.

[–] Skellybones 13 points 1 year ago

I just say no

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

It's still fine.

Some big international store in europe is asking to buy food from them for full price and donate it to food bank. Fuckin hilarious for making profit on charity.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I hate these donate screens because I have no idea where the donation actually goes and i don't want to have to do a ton of research at the grocery checkout about whether its a good charity.

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[–] Lifecoach5000 12 points 1 year ago (2 children)

And I will never ever give these fools my actual phone number for discounts. Just use any area code w/ 867-5309 to get around this.

[–] jackoneill 7 points 1 year ago

Jenny Jenny, who can I turn to? You give me something I can hold on to. I know you think I’m like the others before who saw your name and number on the wall

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[–] toxicbubble 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

PSA: most Americans can get up to $300 deducted from their annual taxes through donations.

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[–] iliketurtles 10 points 1 year ago (2 children)

It's so they can get a tax write off for your donation.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago

This is a lie that I had hoped to leave behind on Reddit but lo and behold it's so pervasive that it transcends social circles.

Repeat after me: that is not how taxes work.

They do not get any monetary benefit from your donations, save for arguably good publicity. They do not claim your donations in their taxes. They do not get extra write offs on their taxes.

Those donations are yours and you could claim them on your taxes, if you were so inclined.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I don’t trust them to actually donate anyway. How would you ever find out? I suspect these are scams to hold the money and get interest off it even if they do ultimately donate it.

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[–] zombuey 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (5 children)

Just FYI this is a sort of scam. ~~The company donates the money on your behalf and they get the tax write-off for your donation while also appearing philanthropic for PR purposes~~. that's why they do it.

EDIT: US companies cannot do this in the US you can claim up to $300 on taxes. This is legit in the US.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

They cannot, and do not, claim your donations on their taxes.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

@zombuey I've heard that a lot, but it is apparently not true unless the company claims your donation as a profit and then writes it off, which negates any tax benefit. I think it's more just a PR thing to make you feel good about that company while using your own money.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

To be fair, I bet these companies strike deals with the charitable organizations to in turn raise visibility of those charities among the company's customers.

[–] MargotRobbie 6 points 1 year ago

They wouldn't be rich if they donated THEIR money, right?

[–] malloc 6 points 1 year ago (3 children)

People that give money for those charities are giving those companies free tax write offs.

You donate $10 or whatever. The company can then claim that $10 as a write off via donation to that charity. Campaign as a whole (either regional or national) collects $1M USD. Corporate accountants write off donation. Tax liability reduced.

[–] stankmut 26 points 1 year ago (3 children)

That's not how tax write offs work. The only way to claim that money in a write-off would be for the business to also claim it as revenue. That would even out, with no tax savings. Businesses also don't handle donations that way, they usually serve as a collection agent that just passes your donations on without being able to claim it towards their revenue or their tax write offs. The only person who can write-off their donation is the person who actually made it.

The reason businesses do it is for marketing. They get to put out a press release saying "They helped donate $10 million to puppies without borders."

[–] cod 18 points 1 year ago

That’s not how tax write offs work

Jerry: So we're gonna make the Post Office pay for my new stereo now?

Kramer: It's a write-off for them.

Jerry: How is it a write-off?

Kramer: They just write it off.

Jerry: Write it off what?

Kramer: Jerry, all these big companies, they write off everything.

Jerry: You don't even know what a write-off is.

Kramer: Do you?

Jerry: No, I don't.

Kramer: But they do. And they're the ones writing it off.

[–] FanciestPants 11 points 1 year ago

Puppies do not recognize your silly imaginary borders and will commit zoomies across any such lines.

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[–] phx 19 points 1 year ago (1 children)

No, that's not how it works. In order to do so, they'd have to first claim the money received as income.

That said, there are scummy things that they do. At the least, it's saying "we [bigcorp] donated $1,000,000 to charity" when in reality all that they did was collect it. In other situations, companies like Sobey's doesn't actually pass on food bank donations as cash, but rather have then as credit to buy products only from Sobey's.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Please don't link to Reddit.

[–] STRIKINGdebate2 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Sorry but this sub has a policy of crediting people rather than passing content off as their own. You can always just not click the link. Lifting content without crediting the op I got it from would be unethical

[–] SheeEttin 12 points 1 year ago

It's already lifted from Twitter, what's the point of crediting the person who lifted it without credit?

[–] Spacecraft 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I hate when they pull this shit at drive through fast food. “Would you like to round up to donate to our charity?”

Who knows what the person taking my order thinks about this charity, and what they might do to someone’s food who says no.

Edit: The fact that merely implying a fast food worker wouldn’t be a complete perfect human being gets so many downvotes says a whole lot about this community.

[–] sirkook 17 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I can assure you that nobody working at the fast food restaurant gives a shit if you donate to charity.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Then they will say it is more efficient to merge the donations with regular revenue and make bulk donations every quarter or something.

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