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Freudian rule (lemmy.dbzer0.com)
submitted 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 
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[–] [email protected] 57 points 1 week ago (1 children)

truly beyond science why people might want a cute sexy woman to pamper them, really it just keeps stumping even the brightest minds in the field

[–] SmoothOperator 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

But... Why does it have to be a mom-thing? Can't the woman you're presumably having sex with inhabit a non-mom pampering role?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

who says it has to be a mom thing? people just use the societal roles they recognize because that's how our brains work, easier to latch onto something familiar as reference than to ruminate on stuff and come up with a separate concept.

There's a lot of overlap between "mommy" stuff and nurse/maid stuff, all (ideally) calm and pampering.

[–] SmoothOperator 5 points 1 week ago

Sure, nothing wrong with the abstract concept, but this meme is explicitly directed at the "mommy" version.

Which does have some much wilder implications than nurse/maid stuff, you must admit. Such as the implication of someone wanting to fuck their mom.

[–] [email protected] 29 points 1 week ago (1 children)

"Looks 12 acts 40"

🤨

~~also, get out of the way of the milfs old man~~

[–] Skullgrid 24 points 1 week ago (1 children)

And sauce for the memes in the bag?

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 week ago

Idk, this meme was stolen two years ago

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 week ago (2 children)

No no, say it with your chest. Freud is absolutely a coke-fiend fraud.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 week ago (2 children)

While I understand his ideas are bad. Fraud is hard to say (atleast for me as someone who only knows Freud passingly). Like if he believed his own ideas, I wouldn't call him a fraud, just bad

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Nowadays, he's only taught in a, "None of what this guy said has any basis in reality, but he basically started the field, so we're learning this as HISTORY ONLY." kind of way.

You don't need to know anything about the content of his work in order to say he is a fraud, as it is accepted as fact by the field of study as a whole.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I do not disagree that his ideas were bad. But fraud /=/ just bad/wrong ideas. Fraud is intentional deception, and I dont know if Freud did that so I can't take that stance.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Didn't he bang some of his patients?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago

Bro and or broette and or brozone:

1: That was Jung

2: You're talking about the times when a valid prescription was a vibrator and cocaine

3: He has been accused of covering up sexual abuse by modern feminist scholars. I'd read those literal scholarly papers on the topic before taking internet comments seriously.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

His crackpot theories made psychology a laughingstock of a science and basically killed interest in cognitive research for several decades. I will always hop on board to slander his fraud ass. Maybe he was too high to know what he was doing, I don't know if I accept that excuse.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I literally switched majors after having to read Freud, so this is something I can get behind.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

His ideas were extremely misogynistic and used as “scientific” excuses to oppress women and people with disabilities for much of the 20th century

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Women got the right to vote in Germany in 1918.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago

Okay and? Freud was Austrian? And his works were used to oppress ill women or “deviant” women.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 week ago

I wonder if there are more pics behind him. :-)

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago

I dunneed big booba.. i need comf person <3

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

Believe it or not, women older that 24 are attractive. It's not about wanting your own mom, but wanting to make someone else a mom (or be a mom yourself 😩)

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago

Didn't the dude have a theory that every women wished she had a penis? penis envy or something.