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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 hour ago

Little magnetic shopping list board that sticks on the fridge. Lost a really wonderful dog a few years ago and had written a list for her that included a lot of quality of life stuff for her final days.

After she passed, I just never wrote on that board again. It got packed and moved to a new house where it sits once again on the refrigerator. Time has hardened the ink on the board and it won't come off again, but I just physically can't throw it away.

It's stupid. She's been gone 4 years now. I'm just powerless xD

[–] floral_toxicity 1 points 2 hours ago

A rock.

A rock that is flatter than it is thick. In college my friend picked it up and wrote PUNK on it. It became punk rock. We ended up becoming best friends and roommates for the rest of college and I ended up with the punk rock when we graduated. Fast forward many years and I hosted a party he attended. When he departed I gifted him with the punk rock. Its something insignificant but means so much.

I don't have a brother but he's as close as it gets.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 hours ago

I have a paper plate with a restaurant "receipt" written on it. There's no way corpo financial would have reimbursed me for a meal where the receipt was written on a paper plate but I kept it as a memento of friends I met at the time.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 7 hours ago

I have a flyer for an event that my highschool crush gave me and I jokingly told her I'd treasure it forever.

I guess I'm just not a guy who can go back on a promise like that.

[–] waz 2 points 6 hours ago

I've a small fractured chunk of cast iron from the first vehicle I replaced an engine in.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 hours ago

My high school report cards. (From 1983.)

[–] [email protected] 4 points 8 hours ago

I (a guy) think I still have a small plastic off-brand Lego in my desk. I spent a weekend with my high school crush and we found a bunch of them and had goofy fun with them.

Last I heard she'd moved away, married a woman, and had a successful career in science. I doubt she thinks of me, but I'm glad she did well.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

On my first day of grade 8, the science teacher asked if anyone had a bill for a demonstration. I volunteered my $5 bill. He proceeded to douse it in some chemical and torch it, to the amusement of the class. It burned for a few seconds but the bill was unharmed. At first I didn't spend it because I liked the story, but now I also won't spend it because it's the last paper bill I have (all Canadian bills have been plastic for a while).

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

AAAAAAAAAAACCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSHHHHHHHHHHHUUUUUUUUUUUUUUAAAAAAAAAAAAALLLLLLLLLLYYYYYYYY!

Canadian bank notes are made of the polymer ... deep breath biaxially-oriented polypropylene (BOPP). All plastics are polymers, but not all polymers are plastics and in this case Canadian bank notes are not plastic.

This interruption brought to you by an obsessive nerd.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 hours ago

Thanks for the info! However your facts will never be strong enough to take away their maple smell.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

I kept a sachet of artificial sweetener given to me randomly one afternoon by a friend I had a crush on. Neither of us used the stuff, we were just being silly.

I had it for a couple of years and kinda forgot about it, then the friend killed themself and it became unthinkable to get rid of it. Maybe a decade later I could finally bring myself to see it as just a pack of stale chemicals and throw it out.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 hours ago

So sorry for ur loss

[–] De_Narm 8 points 13 hours ago

It's an egg shaped piece of marble from my mother, which is now sitting on my desk. It used to have a sticker labelled 'Echt Marmor' which means 'real marble' in german. I think it is older than I am. My mother is still around, but I've moved quite far away and this egg is currently my only keepsake.

[–] Postmortal_Pop 7 points 14 hours ago

I have the knob off my first oven. When it burnt out my landlord opted to buy a new one instead of getting a new coil so I swiped the knob. It was the oven and stove I taught myself to cook on, I wouldn't be who I am today of I hadn't had to spend every night guessing the temp from that worn out knob.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 13 hours ago

My deceased mom’s drivers license. Carry it with me in my wallet.

[–] NineMileTower 5 points 14 hours ago (2 children)

A chunk of glass that I found walking to school one day in like 1997. It's like an inch thick. No idea where it would have came from. If I can find a picture when I get home I will upload it. Now it just reminds me of childhood wonder.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 12 hours ago (2 children)

Could potentially be a chunk of a glass insulator? Did you find it under or near telephone lines at all? A pic would be useful - I collect insulators so I might be able to tell you whether or not it’s part of one.

[–] NineMileTower 3 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago) (1 children)

No. It was in the sidewalk next to the street. No overhead lines. I'll send a picture when I get home. The one edge has about a half inch radius.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Hmm, interesting. What color is the glass? I am guessing it is clear?

[–] NineMileTower 3 points 11 hours ago
[–] [email protected] 4 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Have you ever passed a Geiger counter over it?

[–] NineMileTower 6 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago)

Yeah, all 6 Geiger counters I own have shown.......no I haven't run a Geiger counter over it.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 15 hours ago

A blanket my mom made me that's as old as me. That blanket kept me warm when I was little and I'll never get rid of it 😌

[–] [email protected] 3 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

Found a massive pine cone in Rome when I visited about 24 years ago.

Not really sure why I kept it but I did.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 15 hours ago

One of my gran’s handkerchiefs. It’s monogrammed with her initials and it’s the only thing of hers I have. Don’t worry, it’s clean and I never use it. 😁

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 hours ago

I wear a black ring with the initials of a person who I thought would be with me till the day I die. They left me a bit ago but I still wear this as the only gift I ever got from this person. I hope they're doing good wherever and however they are

[–] [email protected] 2 points 14 hours ago

I have a small piece of scrap rebar on my kitchen window leftover from when we had the foundation fixed.

[–] slazer2au 1 points 13 hours ago

A steel carabiner. I used it as a belt for so long it now lives in the belt draw.