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submitted 1 day ago* (last edited 6 hours ago) by vatlark to c/[email protected]
 

I don't know any Lemmy users IRL. I have nudged my friends towards it. My partner has asked me to post things a few times. Just curious.

Edit: running total including the commenter: 26.5 people

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[–] ace_garp 2 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 3 minutes ago)

Seen with my own eyeballs?

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But I'm pretty sure they post to Mastadon and it is visible here on Lemmy. Or maybe they have accounts on Lemmy.

Β―\_(ツ)_/Β―

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 hour ago

Just my wife, who downloaded the app for me and subscribed to instances because it's too complicated and effort

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Just one, the only relatively tech-savvy person I know irl

[–] vatlark 1 points 6 hours ago

Added to the tally. I'm not sure if the tally is larger or smaller than I expected.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

I have at least 3 friends IRL that are on Lemmy. One of them I got to join, and two are friends I met doing mutual aid and other organizing projects. Later found out they're on here.

[–] vatlark 2 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

You are the only person so far that knows someone else's on Lemmy and you aren't reason they joined or vis-versa

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 hours ago

Huzzah! I know a bunch of geeks and radicals, so maybe that's why.

[–] vatlark 2 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Woah very cool. Excuse my ignorance but is "mutual aid" a term for helping out your neighbor? Which is something people have always done but it often sounds like when people use the term "mutual aid" it is a bit more organized. Does that ring true for you?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah, that's pretty much it. "Mutual aid" is meant to be distinct from "charity" which has a different kind of implication. Mutual aid is more about "we help each other". Charity can absolutely be organized, but tends to be more "structured" than mutual aid efforts.

[–] vatlark 2 points 8 hours ago

Makes sense. Thanks

[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

There seems to be 3 forum platforms.

  1. Lemmy
  2. Reddit
  3. Gab

I hear about reddit on the radio and people talk about reddit. No one talks about the other two.

[–] vatlark 3 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Interesting. This is the first I heard of Gab

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago) (1 children)

Gab's exclusively for nazis.

[–] vatlark 3 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

It's like a far right Lemmy? Huh. Kinda like bizarro Lemmy.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 hours ago

I think the appeal is Trump is on Gab. (Don't quote me. I'm not sure.)

[–] vatlark 1 points 7 hours ago

Ha I'll add 0.5 to the count

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 hours ago

0.5. One friend found my lemmy account when scouring the internet for TTRPG maps. I think that halfway counts, even if he doesn't have an account of his own.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 10 hours ago

Just my partner and I.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 hours ago

So far I don't think I've met anyone

PS. According to the subscribers of the Greek community, there are probably less than 70 Greeks online on lemmy (and probably some of them live abroad), so it's probably rather rare to find someone who uses it.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 hours ago

Big fat goose egg 0. A lot of people I talk to don't even know what Reddit is, really.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 13 hours ago

Zero. However I would be interested in seeing anyone in real life. I feel like it would go do in Lemmy history.

[–] Sheldan 2 points 11 hours ago

I know one.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 12 hours ago

I know one who I stumble upon once in a while in the comments, we say hi to each other

[–] [email protected] 3 points 13 hours ago

Two. The friend who sent me here and a friend I sent here.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 21 hours ago

Buddy, I don't even know myself.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 day ago
[–] grasshopper_mouse 4 points 20 hours ago

My partner was on it for like a minute but I don't think they use it anymore. Certainly not as much as I do.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 22 hours ago

None, as far as I know.

[–] Psythik 25 points 1 day ago

0 and I hope I never meet any of you.

[–] nadram 44 points 1 day ago

None. Although I've never asked

[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 day ago

I've never met anyone in person who's even heard of Lemmy. Well, at least whenever it's brought up πŸ˜…

[–] [email protected] 30 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 31 points 1 day ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 day ago

X-Files theme

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[–] konalt 22 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Trick question. I'm the only real user on the internet. Nice try.

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[–] QuincyPeck 24 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Lemmy? I can’t even get them off the goddamned Facebook.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 day ago (5 children)

Any time I’ve brought it up everybody glazes over the first time I say the words β€œinstance” or β€œfederated.” I’ve tried the email analogy, but they lose interest immediately.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 hours ago

Magic box is magic. Anything else hurts most people's brains.

In a way, it's impressive we got this far technologically before we started losing the plot, considering we evolved for the pointy-sticks-and-fire level.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago)

Try 'non corporate reddit that isn't full of bots, and you can block assholes.'

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

Call them "communities", not "instances", that might work better

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Perhaps there's a better term, because "communities" already means something else here. Last thing we need is another Discord-calling-groups-'servers' mess.

"Homes" could be alright? or even "towns"?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

"Communities" would work well because most people understand that it describes a group of people with similar interests which is basically what Lemmy instances are (whereas "instance" sounds borderline meaningless to most people as if you're trying to push them onto a tech project they don't understand). The Lemmy "c/" could be called "subcommunities" or "sublemmies" or something like that which would help people who are familiar with Reddit understand what they are as well.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago)

This made me think about my struggles with trying to learn moves in fighting games.

The tutorial can’t tell me the move with actual button combinations. No. Instead I have to read it as punch + kick + grab first. And because I’m a friggin’ noob, I have to try to interpret what buttons those actions are.

How is this relevant? It really isn’t, the more I think about it. Bad comparison. Ah well. At least you know how sad I am at fighting games now.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Oh God I would never admit this to anyone IRL

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[–] mesamunefire 16 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

2 in my local area. It's how I found out about it. We have been slowly growing the community.

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[–] MisterNeon 8 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Zero. I know a couple of you nerds live in Philly and that terrifies me. I also know the reverse is true. This is the game we have agreed too.

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[–] Carighan 7 points 1 day ago

None, and that's probably a good thing. And also really not unexpected given how small the platform is.

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