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[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 day ago

I don't think I've ever seen/noticed a pair of asymmetric frames before, they're so hecking cool!

[–] Valmond 10 points 22 hours ago (8 children)

That's some fancy spectacles!

So, what quest can you give me, wandering person?

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 day ago

i like your funky glasses :D

[–] WaxedWookie 13 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Hell yeah!

Well intentioned cis outsider here, so I hope this comes across in the spirit it's intended.

For better or worse, I can imagine that this decision would ironically make many people more comfortable, as they wouldn't experience the same level of perceived gender ...dissonance(?). Whatever the case, you don't need me to tell you that it's certainly not your job to adjust your identity or presentation to please people, and it's a rad look - I don't think I could help but take a bit of an admiring look tbh.

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 day ago

Fuck yeah! I'm here for it

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago

Those glasses are cool!

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 day ago

Yup I agree with glasses comment, I dig them!

Being cis I can't say I am bothered in the slightest, but sorry most people make you feel that way. Terrible that is the culture we have currently.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 day ago (7 children)

I love your look! Is that purple(?) thing like basically sleeves with a hoodie you pop over things? Whatever it is, it's fab and I want one.

[–] SkyezOpen 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Seconding. Love plague doc asthetic.

[–] tanisnikana 3 points 17 hours ago

That’s actually my wife (not pictured) who rolls that aesthetic. I just try to dress like the protagonist of a yet-unreleased Final Fantasy. :D

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[–] Makhno 10 points 1 day ago

I'm cis, and I hate any type of attention, so I'm with you!

Plus, you look great!

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Joke's on you, I try staunchly and vehemently not to look at cis people too.

PS: Amazing drip

[–] tanisnikana 3 points 17 hours ago

Everything I’ve got is drip. Nothing casual. 180mph, all the time, all gas no brakes.

[–] TheWilliamist 12 points 1 day ago

I dig the glasses!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

Gorgeous! Love the asymmetrical lenses

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

Questioning my cisosity because you have a look so endlessly fascinating i could stare all day

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

I guess I fall outside cisdom, but your kit would have me staring unsubtly!

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