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Here's an example from me

If you want to de-normalize a nation's state/government, call them

spoilera regime


Other examples include: hospital --> loony bin

Edit: the more I think about it, the more I realize dysphemism are insults?

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[–] [email protected] 50 points 7 months ago (2 children)

call social programs 'entitlements'.

[–] MrVilliam 22 points 7 months ago (1 children)

And it's not wrong to call them that. We are entitled to social programs that we paid into. The issue is the popularity of people saying that some are "entitled" instead of "self-entitled".

[–] [email protected] 10 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

I don't disagree (that we should get what we paid for), but I think that term is meant to imply that beneficiaries of these programs are spoiled brats. Its idiotic, but then so is our politics. The distinction between 'entitled' and 'self-entitled' I think is way too fine a point for our national discourse.

[–] hperrin 5 points 7 months ago

I like the term β€œearned benefits” for things like Social Security that you have to pay into.

[–] sanguinepar 28 points 7 months ago

Calling refugees "immigrants"

Calling making an effort to be inclusive with people marginalised in some way, "woke"

[–] 200ok 13 points 7 months ago (1 children)

"Booze-hound" to mean someone with an alcohol addiction

[–] 200ok 11 points 7 months ago (1 children)

and someone who is addicted to drugs is sometimes called a "junkie".

[–] tourist 6 points 7 months ago (1 children)

they usually just use my first name

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago

Tbf, western tourists kinda be like that tho...

[–] 200ok 9 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Back when I was in high school, I remember people calling introverts and goths "freaks" (i.e. people who are outside the "norm".)

[–] qisope 5 points 7 months ago (1 children)
[–] MapleEngineer 10 points 7 months ago (2 children)

I tell my friends that Asperger's is a super power and that the word, "normies" is an insult.

[–] TheWoozy 3 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I've aways assumed "normie" was an insult. But I might be over sensitive to such things, becaise "cis" also sounds like an insult to me.

[–] MapleEngineer 2 points 7 months ago

A lesbian friend was the first person to call me cis. I had no idea what it meant. Now that I understand I have embraced the term to make clear how I see myself. I am a cis male.

[–] 200ok 2 points 7 months ago (1 children)
[–] MapleEngineer 2 points 7 months ago
[–] [email protected] 9 points 7 months ago
[–] 200ok 7 points 7 months ago

Some people call a therapist a "shrink".

[–] 200ok 6 points 7 months ago (1 children)

There are a number of dysphemisms that are used to signify a person displaying symptoms of mental illness:

  • crazy

  • whack job (or whacko)

  • lunatic

[–] 200ok 2 points 7 months ago

And I've heard someone with a physical disability is called (cringe) a "gimp". Ugh.

[–] 200ok 3 points 7 months ago

Getting "dumped" (for being on the non-consenting side of a break up.)

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 months ago (1 children)
  • Motorcycle riders : temporary Australians; or meat crayons
  • Mental hospital : Napoleon factory (credit to Robert Heinlein)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 months ago

meat crayons

Now, that's a colorful right there

Mental hospital : Napoleon factory (credit to Robert Heinlein)

Why wouldn't we want more Napoleons tho?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago

Relevant to your second example, a lot of people here tend to call therapists "paid friends".

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago

Kick the bucket for die

[–] [email protected] -1 points 7 months ago (1 children)
[–] TheWoozy 1 points 7 months ago

Chitown for Chicago.

[–] [email protected] -2 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

So-so no Frieren (I actually think it's goated, btw)

You'll see a lot of dysphemisms in the 2____4u communities as well.