I am 57. Not only does it feel like "something wicked this way comes" but there is also this feeling that the whole world is holding it's breath. Almost as though we are all waiting for some catalyst or sign or event that puts an end to this feeling of being put on hold. This vague, unexplained unease we feel. Something terrible lurking just out of our field of vision but we all feel it closing in. I cannot count the number of people who have told me they wish that whatever is going to happen would just get on with it. That this waiting for the thing in the darkness is unbearable.

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[–] [email protected] 35 points 9 months ago (1 children)

It's me, I'm the thing that's lurking just outside your field of vision that you feel closing in and I'm gonna get to it when I have time, okay? Have some friggin patience

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

But I'm bored now!

[–] Abucketofpuppies 32 points 8 months ago (1 children)

That lurking feeling is actually just indigestion from your unceasing diet of pessimistic online dialogue and media. Go outside, enjoy the air and the wind, look someone in the eyes. It'll clear things right up.

[–] EndlessApollo 16 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Yep, nothing is wrong, absolutely nothing to be fucking terrified about in the future! It's all in your head, just touch some grass and you'll stop worrying about trump winning or the environment getting irreparably fucked (:

[–] [email protected] 11 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

Avoiding pessimistic content does not mean embracing ignorance. The key is to understand what is within your capacity to change and to try and let go of worrying about everything else. It's about understanding that marinating in a sea of doomscrolling is really bad for you: https://www.openaccessgovernment.org/what-is-doomscrolling-and-why-is-it-bad-for-us/143139/

And that bad news is also literally addictive and it is important to break that habit: https://www.fastcompany.com/90269566/how-to-stop-your-brains-addiction-to-bad-news

[–] ChicoSuave 20 points 8 months ago

Jokes on them. That's anxiety and the "just wish this would happen so we can get over it" is the start of a long depression about how nothing changes and nothing we do actually matters.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

TracySmith5497 needs to watch fewer YouTube videos

[–] [email protected] 12 points 8 months ago

That's a bit melodramatic but we are facing problems on a rather unprecedented scale.

The connectedness of the world and the fragility of profit maximising economies means that local crises are global and there isn't much slack to absorb shocks. We're seeing that now with how badly we've dealt with a pandemic (not even a particularly bad one by historical standards) which is an expected event you must plan for. We're seeing it as we get squeezed by rising insurance premiums as disasters become more likely and so on.

Maybe the Teflon in our teeth wont matter too much, maybe we will somehow address climate change without displacing hundreds of millions of people and the expected refugee crisis, maybe we'll handle the resurgent fascism in western democracies but that doesn't change that the system we're in is fragile and people are stretched to their limits.

[–] nifty 12 points 8 months ago

they’ve been watching too much Fox News I think

[–] [email protected] 7 points 8 months ago

That's the microwave mind-control transmitters. That's the feeling they produce. Every major city has one in geosynchronous orbit.

As you might guess, they are wonderful for influencing public opinion.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 8 months ago

Our challenges are unique among all generations, but the fact that we have challenges is not. Your quality of life is up in the air unfortunately, but the world will turn on as it always has. The world is not ending.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 8 months ago

I think this person is just a doomsday Christian.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 8 months ago

I'm 20. I don't feel this way but maybe that's because it's been this way since I learned to think. I really hope for a revolution in the US

[–] Silvia 3 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

That's a pro Civvie-11 reference right there

[–] LucasWaffyWaf 3 points 8 months ago

I appreciate the Civvie 11 reference.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago

MalO wants to know your location