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[–] [email protected] 52 points 10 months ago (4 children)

I wish more people regarded their family fuzzies as friends, not mere pets. If you spend time and bond with them, cats and dogs can be the most loving and rewarding people you know.

[–] samus12345 24 points 10 months ago (1 children)

They're more like kids than friends, since friends don't usually rely on you to survive. They're call fur babies for a reason.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 10 months ago

I think of my cat as an actual full-grown member of our family.....of course she's older now, but I want her to feel she's as well regarded and cared about as anyone else. My in laws were just here, and they treat the cat like a pet - meaning, they disregard her presence and never even once noticed her at all. I dote on her, but maybe I'm a bit prejudiced because she's so cute.....!

[–] [email protected] 12 points 10 months ago (2 children)
[–] AWistfulNihilist 6 points 10 months ago

There's a documentary about Gunther, apparently it's all a scam and the whole thing is a cult.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 10 months ago

Great pics - thanks for sharing those!

[–] blanketswithsmallpox 8 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I don't think I've met anyone that wasn't ratchet or degen who thought of their pet as anything other than close companions.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 10 months ago (1 children)

There was a news article in USA Today (which we always get about five days late for some reason) about a woman who adopted a chihuahua that was mutilated by it's former owners and had it's paws chopped off to the bone.

The woman said, "please we don't know who did this to this dog, but no calls for justice, we just want to get the dog better." They were fitting it with special pads so it could try and walk again.

I just have to wonder about the criminally sick mentality that could harm a dog or cat that way.

[–] [email protected] 40 points 10 months ago (3 children)

As cute as that sounds, for dogs, reducing separation anxiety is counterintuitive.

The more emotional both departing and returning is. The more it hurts them when you leave, the more separation anxiety develops.

In an ideal world, when you leave your dog for the day, saying nothing when going and a professionally distant "greetings puppy" when you return will reduce anxiety for a dog when left alone. This doesn't work by itself; you have to teach them to be alone slowly and carefully.

[–] PlantDadManGuy 9 points 10 months ago

While I agree with you about the unceremonious departings, I firmly believe that when you're reunited with pets you should greet them wholeheartedly, on their level with unbridled affection.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Sounds like you're slowly turning them into a cat.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago (1 children)

This also works well for children.

[–] ikidd 7 points 10 months ago

Lock them in a closet first for extra distance.

[–] justanotheruser4 39 points 10 months ago

Nooooo You are just training them to try harder and harder

[–] doingthestuff 20 points 10 months ago (2 children)

I've had pets for more than forty years and I've never had one try to convince me not to go to work. Either:

I'm an asshole and they want me to leave

I'm a workaholic and they know not to bother asking (likely)

I'm oblivious to them making this plea every day

[–] [email protected] 5 points 10 months ago

If the plea does nothing they will end up stopping so I don't think it's the third one at least.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 10 months ago

This is wholesome as fuck.