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[–] ChexMax 165 points 1 year ago (16 children)

No but they absolutely do say, "Wow you look really pretty today" but have no idea why.

Men treat you nicer when you wear makeup.

The other day my coworker said, "you look different. I don't know what it is, but you look great. I think you've been getting a lot of rest" nope. Just wore makeup that day

My husband, many times, has been looking at me, admiring me, and complimenting me on how naturally beautiful I am without realizing I just filled my eyebrows in that day and have darker lashes rather than blonde lashes.

Just because men have the privilege of ignorance doesn't mean they aren't attracted to made up faces.

[–] fruitSnackSupreme 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Why is this a thing, but then if men wear any makeup whatsoever, it's immediately noticeable? Unfair man.

[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 year ago

Cause it's really difficult to apply a subtle hint of makeup to enhance existing features. Men (usually) don't get a ton of practice at it, so they use a heavy hand.

People that say they hate makeup USUALLY just hate heavy, poorly done makeup.
People that say they hate cosmetic surgery USUALLY just hate heavy, poorly done plastic surgery.

I hate when people feel they need to apply makeup they don't want, and hate when people feel they need surgery to look good, but there are definitely people who do both for the right reasons, and do them well, and people DO notice the improvement, they just don't always notice why.

[–] ChexMax 1 points 1 year ago

I do feel bad that makeup isn't more normalized for men. That said, the more you practice, the less noticeable it is! And if you go for a practiced natural look, it will probably not be noticeable to other men! For what it's worth, makeup is almost always going to be immediately noticed by people who do makeup

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