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[–] Alexstarfire -2 points 1 year ago (3 children)

How about we come up with a better term rather than use a stupid one that someone has to tell you how to pronounce.

[–] BottleOfAlkahest 26 points 1 year ago (1 children)

To be fair Mrs. (And to a lesser extent Mr.) Don't have an obvious pronunciation from the spelling either. You've just been hearing them said out loud for most of your life.

[–] Alexstarfire 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Fair, but they are also shorthand for words: Mister, Miss, Missus. All of which are pronounced as you'd expect.

Is Mx short for something? I've not heard so but that doesn't mean it isn't.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Apparently it's short for "Mix". I only learned that in this post, which suggests it's far from established - I assumed it was along the lines of "latino/latina -> latinx".

[–] Arrkk 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Obligatory "Latine" is the preferred gender neutral term for spanish speakers because it actually follows the gendering rules of the language, rather than english speakers making shit up.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Yesss that sounds far better.

Even if it sounds close to a word for "toilet" - but then, half the argument revolves around toilets.

Let people piss and shit in peace.

[–] NOT_RICK 15 points 1 year ago (2 children)

It takes 10 seconds to learn its pronounced mix. Its not difficult in the slightest

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Anyone with an S lettered last name is gunna sound like Mc S

I just tried it with my last name lol.

Mc Steele, makes me feel like a McDonald's meal item.

[–] Alexstarfire 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I'm not saying it's difficult to teach or learn, but if you first encounter it in a book are you going to know it's pronounced "mix?" And if you hear is are you going to know it's spelled "Mx?" You can argue difficulty all you want but if you have something that is spelled how it sounds and pronounced how it looks it's still easier and there will be less confusion.

[–] hperrin 1 points 1 year ago

I mean if you see “Mx” and you don’t assume it’s pronounced “mix”, you might have some elementary language difficulties. I understand not being sure, but it is pronounced how it’s spelled.

[–] SheeEttin 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I don't see anything stupid about this, but if you have better ideas, let's hear them.

[–] [email protected] -3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The better idea is not to make up terminology that only suits you and an exceptionally small minority and then expect everyone else to adopt it.

By all means, define yourself as you like - but don't expect others to immediately recognise that definition without reasonable explanation.


This case has nuance. On the one hand, a teacher in Florida is not allowed to talk about gay people or anything about alternate genders, per state law. On the other, Federal Law states that no one can be fired over matters regarding sex. Federal law overrules any laws states make, hence the ruling in 303 Creative vs Elenis, however the question is what "sex" covers in the Federal domain.

[–] FlyingSquid 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What honorific should nonbinary people use?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Whatever they like, and other people should be reasonably accommodating to that. Meanwhile, people using rarer honorifics should be accepting that others might find it unusual and sometimes hard to remember.

[–] FlyingSquid 1 points 1 year ago

I think most of them do accept that. Just like most trans people accept that their friends might mess up on gender on occasion after they transition.