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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Marginalized people in general have to put far more effort into identity than non-marginalied people. Black people often have to speak differently to white people, autistic people mask, women often have to wear a full face of makeup. Yes, all people put an insane amount of effort into gender, but the power imbalance in society makes it far lighter on some people.

[–] Chunk 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Why do black people have to speak differently? I've met tons of black people who speak every which way.

[–] Grimr0c 2 points 1 year ago

Because westerners live in a culture dominated by white people. it behooves racial minorities to speak and act like the racial majority to prevent discrimination, misinterpretation, et cetera.